How can I best approach this new match?

[Anonymous]

I just matched with a woman and I’ll be honest, I think she seems like a very impressive lady. She has all the right things going on and seems very disciplined and good head on her shoulders. And she’s absolutely stunning. I want to give myself the best chance at a meet up and she seems intent on building up a real connection with someone.

The idea of getting to know her really excites me. I think she has potential to be the best woman I’ve matched with, based on first impressions. How can I not screw this up? So many matches, despite my best efforts, have been these shallow interactions and fall through in a matter of just a handful of messages or after a few days if they get further. Some legitimate help from some women here would be great.

[beenherebefore]

Well, I think you're putting her in a pedestal too fast. This is your impression of her but in reality you don't know her. I'd go on a date and just be myself without overthinking and rushing.

[Asker]

The problem with what you’re saying is, a match just automatically mean a date is going to happen. “Oh yeah just go on a date!” I WISH it was that easy.

[beenherebefore]

I don't understand what's so complicated about this topic. Maybe you're just inexperienced when it comes to dating.

[Abbycado]

Introduce and tell her some interesting things about yourself.

[Asker]

I don’t want to talk about myself too much tho! That never seems to work well.

[In_Trance]

I think you're already fucked.

In your mind you have her on this mental pedestal that makes her look untouchable, and you have no idea what to do with that.

[Nikki1989]

Stop posting anonymously if you want to be taken seriously.