Do girls like getting hickeys from guys after kissing?

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Would girls think a guy is a loser if he had never given a girl a hickey?

edeline · Accepted Answer

They aren't "immature" as the other girl said, just society classifies it as that. Especially Americans, they have a thing for relating anything sexual as "bad". And it is actually immature calling them immature, it just doesn't make sense. Nothing really points to that category, maybe if the guy wants to "mark his territory" but that only seems to  go through the less educated mind sets. But nuu, not a loser, it's just seen as bad if a girl walks around with them because society likes to label them as "sluts and whores" and other vile rotten things, that's the true immaturity, not being able to connect or register simple behaviors, does anyone really deserve to be called a "slut" a "whore" or even a "bitch'? Nope, not on my watch.

earthrages · Accepted Answer

If it's in a spot where no one can see it, then whatever.  To me, it's just a signature of someone's dominance.  Example: "I gave her a hickey; she's mine"  If a girl enjoys hickey's, so be it.  You're not loser if you haven't given a girl a hickey.  Honestly, I could totally down if another girl gave me a hickey. ;)  I just don't like getting a hickey that people can see.  It's just MY preference:)

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I think it's silly for a guy to intentionally try to give a girl a hickey, but sometimes it just happens by accident. I find it pleasurable to be kissed on the neck, if it happens it happens. but don't intentionally try to bruise up a girls neck just so you can say you gave a girl a hickey

sisterray · Accepted Answer

Girls like hickeys. I don't think a girl would think a guy is a loser if he had never given a girl a hickey, but some free spirited women think men who are virgins are losers.

jpinka · Answer

its not the hickey that's the issue, its the people around you and your parents if they happen to see it. they can be hot for a period of time but when people open their mouths it becomes an inconvenience.

Anonymous · Answer

Totally love hickeys! haha. It's better if they are only in places where no one can see them though. You really don't want people to see them... but they are awesome when you do. It's like a nice little reminder :)

liltabbixxo · Answer

f*** no...I hate hickeys. So white trash in my opinion, visual ones at least. Could be sexy where no one can see :X

Alexias · Answer

um nooo... If someone thinks you're a loser then tell them you don't enjoy breaking blood vessels, you're not chris brown after all.

Anonymous · Answer

Hickeys are distasteful and are a sign of immaturity. I don't like it when my boyfriend leaves them on me. It's embarrassing to walk around with one and they're difficult to cover up. There's nothing wrong with never having gave one.

Girr13 · Answer

Hickeys are gross, so If you never given one its a good thing

CorneliaisPretty · Answer

there's nothing wrong with never given one, but I wear mine with pride! :P

9mfeo · Answer

I much prefer not to be given any hickeys, thank you very much.

Anonymous · Answer

It's cute for awhile but it's SUCKS  because you have to hide it from parents, friends, teachers, strangers. Guys already call girls whores, you don't want them actually thinking your a whore!

Anonymous · Answer

No, you are not a loser if you don't give a girl a hickey. It's not important.

Anonymous · Answer

im 15 and my boyfriend gave me a hickey. is it a bad thing?

Anonymous · Answer

yes I wear them with pride:)

Anonymous · Answer

Noooooo It's not cool. Trashy

Anonymous · Answer

I don't like them

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