Polls: Dating

I'm glad to have naturally straight hair over curly (it's more maintenance), but at the same time I do feel more me when my hair is curled some way rather than just laid flat. Especially smaller curls, those are so cute! 😻

I've noticed many guys these days seem to prefer straight hair over curly/wavy (I always thought it's the other way around, strange), thus I do not know if it's a good idea to go with my plan.

It supposed to be a casual (first official) date so I thought curling my hair would make it look a bit more special, it would show that I have put some effort to look nice for him.

Please vote and/or comment! thanks guys!

If so, give at least one image example so we can all discern a bit further how this manifests (male or female). :)

I recently watched this TikTok in which this guy took a girl he was dating to a fancy restaurant. She was obviously never at a fancy restaurant because she was freaking out and taking a bunch of pictures. He later noted to his friends that he'd have been more impressed by her if she acted like she's done and been to all of this before.

28F, just leaning towards bad luck. I’m very introverted & not the friendliest but I don’t think I’m intimidating. I’m told I’m cute/attractive, it’s not like I’m a runway model yet guys just never approach me. I’m told guys look at me but they never do anything about it & I’m too shy. I know there’s nothing wrong with me, most women seem to get guys so easily. That’s why I’ve been on and off the apps since I was maybe 18, getting matches has never been a prob. Convo always fades, ghosting, lack of interest (goes both ways) & some guys who are crazy. I’ve tried a lot of them, usually I stick with Hinge. It’s always a pattern of the guys I want who don’t want me back & the ones that want me I don’t like back. For maybe the past year I’ve become less and less interested, I reply to matches/msgs every couple of days? Even when I was more engaged it still led to the same pattern of no success. A few people have said maybe I’m asexual (haven’t had sex or masturbated in years), assume I’m gay or I’m unsure of what I want. Maybe they’re all wrong & simply I haven’t found the right person? I dated someone for a few months back when I was 23 & after dealing with someone I felt like I settled for, I decided I’d rather be alone vs be with someone I am not crazy for. I’m kind of at the point where I’m apathetic & I just feel too old to be bothered.

Speaking in terms of courtship, dating, relationships, etc.

You don't want to discriminate and be hateful, do you?

Girl A) She’s a Yoga Instructor
Into health, meditation and music. Mother of one from previous relationship. Very friendly, warm and kind. Runs her own business and plays numerous instruments and is an excellent singer. Likes to cook and has lots of friends too.
Looks: long dark hair, brown eyes, glasses, normal weight, cute smile.

Girl B) She’s an Accountant Very into fitness, running marathons, fit body, muscular and eats very healthy. Loves going to the gym. Also loves to cook and has a dog. But she can be needy and her house is slightly messy. Looks: muscular toned body, booty goals, dark mid length hair and hazel eyes.

Girl C) She’s a Designer
Into all things art, painting, photography, hiking and outdoors. Easy going but she’s very shy and quiet until you get to know her. She’s a neat freak and a vegetarian. Looks: Long blonde hair, blue eyes, not skinny but curvy in the right places - great boobs but not the most confident.

It should be easy to find a guy that meets the requirements, right? I think it's pretty depressing if one couldn't. Preferred traits may be more difficult.

Required traits:

• Non-smoker/drinker (both past present and future)
• pro-abortionist
• Must be faithful/loyal
• Safety-oriented (ex. still wears a mask in public)

Preferred traits:

• calm/patient
• Good long-term memory
• Shows concern about my well-being

My friend is an evolutionary psychologist and we’ve been talking about the importance of a waist to hip ratio in the role of attraction.

Here are the figures, please choose which one is the most appealing for you.

My WHR is 0.63 and I think it definitely works in my favor.

Introvert: a person who prefers alone time and minimal social situations / a quiet person who likes people but doesn't feel the need to go to parties every night.

Ambivert: one whose personality type is intermediate between extrovert and introvert.

Extrovert: pays more attention to what's going on around them than what is in their heads. They love to get out and about.

28F, I’m told I’m attractive & while I have confidence issues, I don’t get asked out by guys ever. I’m not sociable but I feel like dating is impossible for me. I have never been asked out by a guy I’d actually want to date & I’d much rather be alone vs be with someone that feels like settling. I’m reading a book & even though it’s fictional I know this kind of stuff happens. The character was asked out by her successful handsome boyfriend while shadowing him at some kind of internship. I know I’m not a 10 but I feel like I should have more relationship experience under my belt, I can’t blame myself. Do decent guys like the one I talked about from my book do things like this? I feel like it’s common but I’m unlucky

I heard some people do this because they don't want others to be in competition for their partner.

I prefer A but like them all. Probably because black hair is glorified in my culture. I find it dark and mysterious.