Am I being unrealistic when it comes to women normally being asked out?

[Anonymous]

28F, I’m told I’m attractive & while I have confidence issues, I don’t get asked out by guys ever. I’m not sociable but I feel like dating is impossible for me. I have never been asked out by a guy I’d actually want to date & I’d much rather be alone vs be with someone that feels like settling. I’m reading a book & even though it’s fictional I know this kind of stuff happens. The character was asked out by her successful handsome boyfriend while shadowing him at some kind of internship. I know I’m not a 10 but I feel like I should have more relationship experience under my belt, I can’t blame myself. Do decent guys like the one I talked about from my book do things like this? I feel like it’s common but I’m unlucky

Women are asked out that way

Women aren’t asked out that way

[Guy13]

You sound like you are not available to date and expect everyone to jump all your hurdles. This is not reality especially in a time when many guys have given up and perfectly fine with the women screwing each other...