Do you think god will give me a good woman?

Question

I’m a 26 year old single, lonely man. I work hard and I hope if I work hard god will reward me with a good, beautiful woman

Do you think this will happen? I have all the attributes and still I’ve never been in dates and had girlfriends.

I am 6’1, in shape and get called handsome yet I feel hated by women. I don’t understand it. I get guys and girls telling me you’ve got it all.
Im just scratching my head.

TheRealPepperPotts · Accepted Answer

No, I don't think He will "give" you a good woman if you're only working and not being proactive. Also, don't be scared to just start talking to girls in general and ask questions (What do you enjoy doing? Tell me about your trip! It sounds really cool. Are you going to a Bible study? Why don't you come to the one I go to? I think you'd enjoy it. etc. etc.) And, here's the tricky part: LISTEN to what they say. Pay attention. Remember names. And tag team with a couple other guys so you aren't conspicuous. Groups are good.

A lot of Christians your age were frightened into not dating because of the mistaken idea that you are taking something away from your future marriage. But dating gives you the opportunity to meet people and learn what you like and don't like and what your dealbreakers are. I am not talking about sleeping around. I am talking about getting to know someone as you do things together and share ideas and interests. There is no harm in beginning to ask girls out. Just be careful you aren't too serious and going too deep too fast (Example: Don't ask how many kids she wants to have on the first date... or the fifth date). Just break the ice and ask her to coffee. The worst she can say is no. And here's a thought: Maybe there IS a girl who has a crush on you, but she is waiting for you to ask her because she is more traditional.

One last thing: I noticed you said good and beautiful. Don't just date the knockouts; they are often just pyrite and are easy to find. Dig for gold and diamonds. They are buried deep, but if you learn where to look, you'll find her.

Proverbs 31:30

"Charm is deceitful and beauty is passing,
But a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised".

IslaTheWitch · Accepted Answer

God gives nothing, especially not healthy relationship with a good person. For this you have to work hard. there is nothing for free

b_lova · Accepted Answer

I'm assuming you are a Christian by the way you phrased the question so I will give you an answer using GOD's word.

The Bible says "He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the LORD."

Knowing that, what are you doing to search for your wife. You have to find her. You can't expect her to fall out the sky like manna. That's not how blessings from GOD normally work. Study the "Parable of the Talents" which applies to many aspects of our lives. You are going to have to ask some women in your sphere of influence on dates; be brave and be yourself. Use the tools GOD has given you to search her out. That is how you find her.

For what it's worth, this is the application of "Faith without works is dead". Now go live life abundantly and with the freedom our Savior paid for.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Amazing how many non believers in the comments. But I used to be one myself so I understand. I am so glad I changed.

God favors all believers who have faith. What will happen after you are born again is God ordered steps. All of your efforts will be more fruitful and you will be presented with being in the right time at the right place. You can also ask the Holy Spirit to guide you as well. But if you are not in the Word, not serving the Kingdom and not born again then this is unlikely. Without God's favor, your ability to build attraction will be the determining factor. You can be 6'1, in shape and handsome, but if you don't know how to build attraction, none of that will really matter.

RebelinSteel · Answer

Just had a quick chat with the guy upstairs, he said can you take a ticket and he will be back to you in the next year or so.

while social media may go on about height in the real world, height is not a big thing

having a decent set of social skills, being nice, able to communicate with girls, are far more important

BonzoInBitburg · Answer

Maybe God is trying to tell you to put the phone down, get your ass off the couch and go talk to women because it's highly unlikely that one will fall from the sky without significant effort on your part. Nobody goes from undateable to dateable without major changes and effort

MikeTheBartender · Answer

It sounds like God already gave them to you, now you just have to use it, you have skills, you are good looking, you are tall. She is not just going to fall in your lap though, go out there and meet her. I recommend Coach Corey Wayne book 3 percent man. I think that would be a great starting point for you.

SotiCoto · Answer

There is no such thing as "god" to give you anything. You're just suffering from the effects of severe brain-damage. But if you want a woman to share your mental disease with, why don't you speak to your local mental disease leader ("priest" or whatever) for help? Isn't that what they're there for? So you zombies can feel like you have a close-knit tribe of fellow infectees?

DarkLegacy · Answer

Seeing as God is pure evil, he is not likely to give any decent person anything but pain and suffering is he now. I mean the whole world is wrong and is going more wrong and it his creation allegedly so i would not bank on it.

Time to flush your bible down the toilet mate.

Abbycado · Answer

I think god gave you enough if you have it all. You have to do the rest and not fuck it up.

DextroShade · Answer

The problem is there is a severe shortage of marriageable women in the West due to social media that disseminates the globohomo agenda of feminism, sex work, baby momma culture, and alphabet bullshit. Most of them are now entitled narcissistic whores so you might need to become a passport bro to find a good woman.

TheorionMage · Answer

GOD 'gives' you NOTHING.
You are provided the opportunity to 'earn' and 'merit' a subjectively-'good' woman.
It is a matter of HOW YOU define a 'good' woman. And...
whether SHE appreciates YOUR 'courtship'.

godfatherfan · Answer

"god" doesn't give you anything. You give you something. if you are waiting for an invisible man in the sky to hand you things, you have larger problems then getting a date.

Serkee · Answer

Even if I believed God existed, he wouldn't reward you with a woman. He gave us free will, so anything a woman does would be of her own volition, not his. You talk as if women are objects, not people.

RasmusAiken · Answer

God will place potentially good women in your social sphere but in the final analysis, it's the woman herself who will give you a good woman. It's her gift and you need to appreciate it daily.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

GIVE you a good woman? That right there is your problem. Nobody just gets given a woman. Maybe when you start to realise women are not inanimate objects, you will have better luck!

Staximus · Answer

If you want a good woman you have to go out and find her, she's not just going to magically appear.

DrPepper12 · Answer

You have to go get her YOURSELF. God has forsaken humanity. JK, God doesn't exist but you STILL need to put in the work and get creative!! Good luck!! She's out there!!

dustybiker2 · Answer

Stop waiting for god and get out there and find someone you match with. Treat her well.

strateguy632 · Answer

he decided that he can't interfere with free choice so no. watch the film bruce almighty

michol123 · Answer

God gives people nothing and praying will do nothing ask all the dead kids who had cancer, you have to put yourself out there where the women are and be brave enough to ask them out

CrabCakes11 · Answer

Why should you get the woman of your dreams? What do you bring to the table?

Agape93 · Answer

God doesn't give a shit about anyone, and he's certainly not able to just donate a woman to you.

Fireguy17 · Answer

You have to go find one. God put them on the planet but you have to do some of the work too.

CriticalCatDad123 · Answer

There are no good women. Most good women are tainted by feminism.

exitseven · Answer

No he won't. You have to get her yourself. He made women but He does not do home deliveries.

OddBeMe · Answer

Sorry he probably doesn’t exist…and it he did he wouldn’t give you a damn thing. If he doesn’t save dead children, you ain't gettin a girl.

12karen · Answer

Ask God if He will, and you'll know, we aren't God so how we are supposed to know

RedInnocent69 · Answer

The Lord helps those who help themselves. God has little to do with it.

Twalli · Answer

You can't just wait around for a hood woman to suddenly appear

laly520 · Answer

have u got the needed social skills

normalice · Answer

There is no God. You have to work on yourself.

MsProsperity · Answer

Forget God and ask women out

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

holydude, that you again?

Iron_Man · Answer

You can pray about it

jahaims · Answer

Imaginary things can't give you something

Anonymous · Answer

God isn't real

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