Is this cheating?

[KittyKatAsks]

My boyfriend swiped up on some females Snapchat story saying “lemme in”. Meaning, let him into her nude private story. Mind you, the picture he swiped up on was a picture of that’s girls boobs.

Yes

No

[SnowedIn]

Honestly, I wouldn't let us decide. You and him have to decide that. For some couples, they wouldn't care. For others, that's a bright red line and quicksand.

That said, most people I think are going to say "oooooooo cheating". BUT... a lot of guys are going to say, hey, what's the difference between that and porn" and their argument is that porn isn't cheating. (My wife doesn't think porn is cheating, as an example.)

But that brings us back to you and him: you two need to talk. And decide: are nude girls on Snap cheating. Or not. Or, porn nudes are okay, but Snap is a little to close to being personal. Or some hybrid thereof.

[Guy13]

That's enough to put distance between "me and her"(if dick pic). There would definitely be no sex and the watchful eye will be on her. It sounds like someone who is not ready to settle down in a one-one relationship.

[weysally]

to me its cheating is anything sexual is kept from your SO,

[sidhagain]

Done that?

[Summeroflove]

If it was for that. Yes better to break it off now

[OfMiceandMen]

I would say yes. Just bc it is online doesn't mean it doesn't hurt a person. I go back to, would he be okay if you were chatting up some guy and he started sharing pictures of his dick?

[es20490446e]

For me the important part of cheating is that my partner is no longer happy to be with me.

If she did things like what you mention, I would interpret she is no longer happy.

Hence a deal breaker.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Yes thats cheating, any intentional sexualized or romantic interaction with another person is cheating.

[Wise4myage]

Its emotional cheating.

[msc545]

Not cheating Ffs

[iSensei]

I think he hust curious maybe

[ashish804]

it is