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Polls: Dating

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Tell her bye
Accept the deception and go exclusive anyway
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Is it a bad sign if a guy doesn’t follow up right after meeting for the first time?

We met up for first time about 4-5 hrs ago, he bought me food at this casual Mexican spot & he seemed okay with continuing talking but I ended it a little over the hr mark. He asked if I had something planned & I said...
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We met up for first time about 4-5 hrs ago, he bought me food at this casual Mexican spot & he seemed okay with continuing talking but I ended it a little over the hr mark. He asked if Show More
Sounds like it went bad
Sounds like it went fine
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Yea it is
No it isn’t
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Am I being petty with not wanting to text this person?

I really don’t like when people are like “text me”…no you text ME. Long story short, I matched with someone on bumble a few months ago & meeting up fell through the cracks (my fault). I reach out to him maybe a month ago...
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I really don’t like when people are like “text me”…no you text ME. Long story short, I matched with someone on bumble a few months ago & meeting up fell through the cracks (my fault). Show More
Yes
No
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That's still a win
That's okay
That's a loss
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Yes
No
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Do women want to be with men like this guy in this video?

When you date a feminist - https://youtu.be/p9cmbqTadco?si=QRewBZy20MGOSwTJ
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If an older woman asks if I am more attracted to older or younger, do you think she wants to hear "older" or "no preference" or "younger but open"?

Let's imagine she prefers younger I personally would tell the truth which is definitely not older but I definitely am open. What do you think she wants to hear though?
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Let's imagine she prefers younger I personally would tell the truth which is definitely not older but I definitely am open. What do you think she wants to hear though? Show More
Older
I have no preference
Younger but open
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Do you believe that it is disrespectful for a man to say another woman is cute/attractive while in a conversation with a woman friend or vice versa?

Weird question, I guess like if we were talking about dating, and I said to my friend, this girl walking down the street that approached me was pretty, but not my type. Or if a woman said, this guy that works at the store...
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Weird question, I guess like if we were talking about dating, and I said to my friend, this girl walking down the street that approached me was pretty, but not my type. Or if a woman Show More
Yeah Kinda
No, I do this with my friends, but I wouldn't say stuff like that around people that I also find attractive
If you had feelings for each other, than yes
No, I would say that to anyone (even someone I'm attracted to) if it came up
If we're actually friends then no, if we're not friends, than yes
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Ladies, be honest, would you ever date a man who makes less money than you?

I ask this because statistically women who are very successful refuse to be with men who earn less than them, While at the same time, Men could not care less about how much a woman makes. Women refuse to date down, where...
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I ask this because statistically women who are very successful refuse to be with men who earn less than them, While at the same time, Men could not care less about how much a woman Show More
Yes id date/marry a man who makes less than me. i want to build him up.
No, id never be with a man who makes less. Money is all that matters
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Yes
No
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If you were me, would you take this as a lack of interest or conversation going in the right direction?

Long story short, we matched & spoke for a few wks on bumble a few months ago. He asked to meet up, the times he gave weren’t working & I was new at a job/stressed at the time. He follows up again during this time & I...
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Long story short, we matched & spoke for a few wks on bumble a few months ago. He asked to meet up, the times he gave weren’t working & I was new at a job/stressed at the time. He Show More
Lack of interest
Convo in right direction
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A colleague canceled a date we had arranged and now I can'tstop thinking to her?

for stupid it may seem, I thought I was not so interested in her, but after her cancelation at the last minute (with the excuse of not feeling good) I can't stop thinking of her.
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for stupid it may seem, I thought I was not so interested in her, but after her cancelation at the last minute (with the excuse of not feeling good) I can't stop thinking of her. Show More
It's obvious because she doesn't want to be taken for granted. Wait for some months and ask again!
For a young woman it is difficult to say a simple no when a senior colleague proposes the date, so she invents the excuse, but it is like a no: don't try again and forget her!
It's not obvious and you should find a psychologist
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Has the standard for men reached too high?

I was having this discussion with my friends and we agreed that nowadays we just have to have it all. The guys that get the girls are tall, good looking, in amazing shape, have a good social media following and status,...
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I was having this discussion with my friends and we agreed that nowadays we just have to have it all. The guys that get the girls are tall, good looking, in amazing shape, have a good Show More
Yeah you guys are right about that
No you’re not
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Was it an error to ask a younger colleague out forbthe evening after only three lunch breaks together?

I'm not her chef, but sometimes she works for me. Very determined, self confident, attractive woman. She accepted the invitations for lunch break with spontaneity and we had very nice lunches. I asked her out and she...
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I'm not her chef, but sometimes she works for me. Very determined, self confident, attractive woman. She accepted the invitations for lunch break with spontaneity and we had very nice Show More
Younger, attractive, and you are more important in the company: your chances are 0. It was a mistake to ask her out soon simply because it is a mistake to have such illusions
It's a mistake. You should have waited months before
Given that she used a standard excuse, she will probably forget soon. No mistake!
You need to work out but you have some chances
Just paranoia. You simply need to be lucky
Better to ask her out soon and to havebthe break soon than waiting for months
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Petite short women, what excites you about a male love interest, is it just his taller height or more?

Let's be real short ladies - nearly every man is taller than your 5 foot or so petite stature - so what allures you to any man taller than you - is it his height, his smell, his looks, his vibes or even just feeling of...
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Let's be real short ladies - nearly every man is taller than your 5 foot or so petite stature - so what allures you to any man taller than you - is it his height, his smell, his looks, his vibes or even just feeling of butterflies inside if you're in his vicinity?
His taller height
His vibes
His smell
His voice
His mannerisms/movements
Other
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Is this a sign that the guy from dating app isn’t interested?

Long story short, we matched & spoke for a few wks on bumble a few months ago. He asked to meet up, the times he gave weren’t working & I was new at a job/stressed at the time. He follows up again during this time & I...
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Long story short, we matched & spoke for a few wks on bumble a few months ago. He asked to meet up, the times he gave weren’t working & I was new at a job/stressed at the time. He Show More
Interested
Not interested
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5’7-6’1
5’8-6’0
5’9-5’11
5’10
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How are mature adults attracted to each other?

Teens like myself think of themselves with permanent traits (e. g. I am unconfident or he is always more funny than me). What’s the adult way of seeing a romantic partner? Do you label people less , and think everyone...
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Teens like myself think of themselves with permanent traits (e. g. I am unconfident or he is always more funny than me). What’s the adult way of seeing a romantic partner? Do you Show More
Adults view others with permanent traits (e. g he will never be a confident person)
Adults see everyone as equally worthy
Both, depends on circumstance
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Attractive
Creepy
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