Should we encourage waiting till marriage?

[Anonymous]

To do the deed? I think it should be encouraged. I hate the idea of proposing to a woman who’s given herself to other men like that.

Your woman is supposed to be your queen, not have been shared between men. no man will get to brag he’s been with my chick.

We should encourage it

We shouldn’t encourage it

[GOLDFISH_smile]

If you don't wait there's the risk the relationship won't work out with marriage & then u had sex with someone who u aren't with anymore. That's true.

If you do wait there's the risk the relationship won't work out with sex & then u had sex with and married someone who u aren't with anymore. That's also true.

🤔 now wait a minute... maybe... we should encourage waiting for sex until you trust the person enough to take on all those risks of sex, and also waiting to get married until you trust the person enough to take on all those risks of getting married? I think that may be better idea yeah.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

I think we should be encouraging safe sex whether it's before or after marriage unless the goal is to become pregnant or catch an std.

The whole idea a woman has to be a virgin for a man is such an outdated and toxic theory that relies on the idea that women have to be conquered and are just a belonging to a man.

Sexual experience is not a bad thing.

[NamerOfStars]

No- that means getting married, which is SUPPOSED to a lifelong commitment, without knowing if you're even sexually compatible. ANYONE can brag that they've been with your wife- whether it's true or not is immaterial; you don't "contaminate" the people you have sex with.

[Avicenna]

You can encourage it, but most women will ignore it

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

I'm indifferent about this, honestly, but I always found it annoying with virgin women that I had to teach them and they didn't know what to do.

[Asker]

Bro imagine a guy out there bragging that he’s slept with your wife can you handle that

[Asker]

You married it while he pumped and dumped it

[Asker]

He didn’t have to commit and now you do

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Eh, it's not something that concerns me.
I did much worse by sleeping with another guy's wife, so I'm not really in a position to judge

[Nikki1989]

You sound far too immature and controlling to EVER have a wife, so don't hold your breath on that ever happening.

[EmmaMary]

So what fucking planet do you propose this should happen? Because as sure as hell it won't happen on this one... Now for fuck's sake Grow Up and stop being so pathetically immature.

[Berethor]

I also don't like hos, no hymen, no diamond, waiting till marriage should be encouraged.

[Anonymous]

Who is this "we" of which you speak? Because PLENTY of people DO encourage that. Just check out any religious community. Also, if it's super important to you then you should get married EARLY.

[Anonymous]

The fact that most women are against this is really telling about the quality of women on this site by large.

[Anonymous]

Nah I need to know the sex is good before I promise her forever

[Anonymous]

Yes we should