Polls: Dating

Let’s say she looks good to you and you start dating her, then eventually you will see her naked

and you see these small marks that are from surgery to make something smaller and other things bigger etc etc

would that turn you off?

Or are they only attrated to cute Asian women? I find the idea that one would find all women of a particular race attractive super weird but apparently some people are like that. Is that the case for the majority of men with preference for Asian women? I'm not talking about men who have dated women of different ethnicities.

Socially, tall males are more successful. They generally have higher status. If a male dates a short women who has short ancestors (yes, a woman may be tall but her relatives tall etc. I'm focusing on a short woman w short ancestors), then his male offspring will be short. Thereby, weakening his ancestral line. Should men then be more conscientious, as women already are, about choosing taller partners?

If you worked in a small department and you had feelings for a woman who was married, would you flirt with another woman and distance yourself from the married woman?

• i just had a procedure yesterday and I told my surgeon I want my hips smaller (removed) and he said why? If that’s what gives you the shape you want?
  i said no I don’t like this part big (pointing to my hips)
• i don’t know how I look yet because I’m still all bandaged up.. BUT just curious to know what most people find MOST attractive with hips or without hips?
  i posted some photos below for reference..
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  With hips

• WITHOUT HIPS

So I lost all the weight, and now my crush likes me back.

He constantly kept his distance from me, and cut conversations short when I was obese like the image. Obviously he found me unappealing.

WOULD YOU GIVE HIM/HER A CHANCE?

WOULD YOU CONTINUE TO PURSUE HER/HIM, SINCE YOU ALSO LIKE THEM?

I’m purple & the guy is grey…😬

Your opinions on that notion in the context of messaging, meeting up, etc.

I was chubby growing up & always assumed losing weight would result in getting more attention from quality guys (not counting the catcalling that happened when I’d go to NY). Now, here I am at almost 30, in a taller/slimmer body (women’s US 10) & I’ve never been approached by a guy I’d actually consider dating. I used to get more attention (but not much compared to other women I knew) but it was usually from questionable guys. And I’m told I’m attractive yet these women I knew would get an abundance of attention from guys. While people told me I was more attractive than these women & these guys that approached them would eventually show they wanted a *good time* a majority of the time, I just never understood why I always seem to be overlooked by guys. On occasion, people would tell me that this & that guy would be looking at me/found me attractive, those were the same guys I found attractive but they NEVER made it known to me directly. I should feel better about myself & while I’ve become more comfortable in my skin over the years, this is truthfully an insecurity that I don’t think I’ll ever completely overcome. Am I just unlucky? Or are most women really that fortunate to have their pick of the litter? I’ve gotten attention from attractive guys on dating apps but it doesn’t hold the same value to me, compared to if those same guys approached me in person. When I say *approached*, I mean in any imaginable scenario: clubs, bars, grocery shopping, coffee shops etc.