Would you obsess over your man?

[Anonymous]

I wanna girl that’s obsessive over me and me obsessive over her. It’s not a bad thing! I want a girl that adores me, would do anything for me, needs me and be 100% loyal.
Why would I want some independent toxic girl

Yes I would be obsessive and needy

No I wouldn’t

[Anonymous]

I would highly recommend avoiding a girl like you described and here's why: In general, girls who are like that are extremely emotionally needy and are not able to self-soothe or regulate their emotions. That means that they must have your near-constant attention and affirmation in order to be happy. If, say, you start a new job that requires you to concentrate on work for a time, she will drive you crazy with constant texts, being upset that you aren't home, being grumpy when you are home about why you weren't home, etc. etc. It will get tiresome real quick.

From my perspective, a woman can adore a man, be willing to do [almost] anything for him, and not "need" him in the way that you are describing. I think that has greater value in the long run. In fact, I would say to try to find a woman who really, really wants you just like you want her. A needy woman will consume a man and his resources, but a woman who wants him? That says a lot about the quality of a man if a quality woman wants him. I know men want to feel needed, but feeling wanted is far more powerful in LTR and marriage. It also shows that a woman has buy-in and isn't just using you. I mean, what happens if she no longer "needs" you?

Think about affairs. Pastors, for example. His wife "needs" him, desperately, most of the time. But the pretty church secretary? Eh. She doesn't need him, but... she makes him feel important. Wanted. Manly.

Boom. Needy woman dumped for a wanting woman, just like that.

[itsclearlynicholas]

I would not want an obsessive woman girlfriend. As much as I would not want a careless woman girlfriend 😆👀♀️🤭😋
The obsessive ones would drive me nuts and crazy, and the careless ones would make me feel distant and likely to dump her/eyes wander even 👀👀👀✌🏻

[TommyMountainFigure]

I agree with you in part.
However, just because she adores you, it doesn't mean you have to keep her locked away. Everyone needs to breathe , or that adoration you seek will not last!

[molonski2]

You would not want that if you had actually lived though it , not remotely healthy bro , think about it , may sound good now.

[sheikalana]

I am obsessed with my Husband.

[Iron_Man]

I’m straight