Reignite that burning passion your man had for you where he just couldn't get enough and treated you like you were his everything?

[Anonymous]

How or what can you do to get your man to have that irresistible desire for you again? Where he can't get enough of you, he wants to spend every second with you and can't keep his hands off you... for years he desired only me and thought it was almost too good to be true and that I was the most beautiful and amazing woman he had ever seen. I love him so much and still also have this desire and passion for him, I was just curious about what I could do to enhance the intensity level again. Been together for 10+ years and seems like just the last few years something changed that he has pulled away?

[PrettyPriya]

This is quite common after a couple has been with each other for a while. I can't speak on personal experience but see it in others. That honeymoon period is long gone and things settle into a routine.

I can relate a little bit even though my relationship is not 10 years old. The excitement from the beginning is over. Sure, we still have loads of fun and love each other very much, but that magic from the beginning (honeymoon period) isn't the same as it is now. Nothing wrong with it.

What I do (and my partner) are little things to keep it interesting and fun. I will plan surprises. He does the same thing. It really keeps things exciting. Maybe I will plan a fun weekend away in a fancy hotel. Something like that you could try.

As far as intimacy goes, that is also not the same as in the very beginning. It is still great, don't get me wrong, but it is much different now as we are living together and the frequency isn't as much. We are both totally okay with that.

I would suggest maybe trying some new things that you are both comfortable with. Sit down and talk about it first and see what things you are both okay doing that maybe you haven't done before.

[barn_stormer]

people get old and boring. shit happens. you can't recreate the magic

[Guy13]

Do the thing you did when first dated... first fell in Love.

[Guy13]

What did you guys do when you fell in love. Those things ought be reconsidered. It is basic couples counseling which also may be a good idea.

[spartan55]

Make sure you are holding up your end first.