Polls: Dating

I don’t think so tbh. With girl’s requirements and preferences you won’t meet them all.

With people always asking questions like is it a red flag if so and so hasn't had a boyfriend/girlfriend at 30 or whateve

we all know the real reason why is so common for women date and commit to men who are years and decades older than them is because of hypergamy.

not saying I blame them but older men will always have the upper hand when it comes to bringing more value to the table. they are...

• more mature
• financially stable
• more wiser
• still able to retain their youth (if they take care of themselves)
• more experienced in bed

however what if men start to age like women do and eventually lose their fertility after their 30s? would you still give them a chance?

A girl might be like he’s the perfect guy - 6 months in dating she is used to him, he is not novelty, no matter how hot + rich etc...

That ‘other’ guy she sees on social media with the abs is novelty as she never had that.

Like with me apart from fame + defined six pack I do have every gift a man can have and I’m a nice guy. I can see my girlfriend getting more and more comfortable around me. She no longer compliments my tall height and ultra luxury things my family own or my looks, career as much. Like I am hung because I’m so fat but I’m only a bit longer than average.
She’s getting over all of it. I can see it.

Women want more and more, they want the novelty.

Best to just get happiness from yourself as no girl will make you happy.

Getting a girlfriend has made me realise, it’s only about your relationship with yourself that matters no other girl will complete or fulfil you.

A woman couldn’t really date a guy that worked at McDonald’s or didn’t earn money unless he’s in college. A man’s career and money are so important. Not to mention women put a lot of emphasis on things a man actually cannot control like height. they put your human value on these things.
Men don’t do this.

Men just care if the girl is pretty and nice. There’s endless pretty girls and it just goes to show that men actually like the girl for her. For actual genuine reasons. The bar is so low for men.

I have actually become liberal, I think it is so outdated!

Why should men work so hard for a girl and ‘worship’ her when she’s been with men before etc… like no girl is traditional anyway, so why should any man be traditional for women?

I used to want to be a provider, I’m so glad I matured. Like no girl is going to use me, it is such an unfair exchange.

Women got their own money and can do what they like with it, don’t come asking for ours.

It often seems like they want more and more from men. As in it’s never enough, a man can always be better looking, have more money etc..

Women only care for rich, tall 6ft+, handsome, fit and hung men

I have all those things and still doesn’t feel like enough.

There’s always a better and bigger man. Women just chase the best of the best.

In my case the stars pretty much aligned I’m a 0.1% guy and still I sometimes don’t feel like enough.

That nowadays men are expected to be perfect. Like have everything.

If this is not true then why does it feel that way? All you hear is girls say he’s 6ft, got money blah blah blah.

My girlfriend is part of this problem. She expected perfection and had a million ways she judged me.

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