In today's dating climate, would you personally be less likely to want to go on a first date with someone, or a second?

[Extraterrestrial1999]

Bit of a weird question I know, as most probably would say first, just generally curious if people say second.

First, due to visual attractiveness being very important personally

First, do to needing to find personality attractive before going on a date

Second, very picky about going on second dates with people more so than firsts

[queenofcardio]

Sometimes the vibes don’t click after the first date, or you realize how mismatched you are. I wouldn’t go on a second date if the guy was dull and lifeless

[Mark_Est]

Your question is a bit weird. But the moment i see that a woman isn't a virgin then she is as good as a dude for me, no thanks Men aren't cucks. If that happens before first date or after determines the outcome.

[NathanDavis]

how could I go on second date with someone... if there was no first date?

[Extraterrestrial1999]

I ust meant like some people its hard to get a date with them, and if they like you enough to go on a first date, it's easier to get a second date unless you really mess up, where some people may go on a first date when anyone they find attractive physically, but they are very picky about going on a second date with them, like they have to feel like they really hit it off to our with them again. I know the logic might seem weird

[NathanDavis]

hmmmmmmmm, well...

I do things a bit differently

I ONLY and ONLY go out with someone that I know for sure 100% are into me, and I am into them... so when there's a first date, there's pretty much a relationship right after

so, at least in my experience... that's always been the case

I really have not been in the situation in which I date someone "to see if it works" so I really can't tell about this "climate nowadays"

I guess I just "play it more safe"

[Nikki1989]

What kind of bollocks is this?

If there is ANY dating climate, it is the one you created in your head.