When you hear adults say that have been single for many years, or that they are virgins, did you assume that something is wrong with them?

[Anonymous]

Not if it's by choice

No dating is hard

Yes if they are conventionally attractive

Yes I've been proven right a few times

Sometimes

[Anonymous]

No. Some people live by personal codes and will not sacrifice it for anyone. Anyone can get a date if they really wanted to sacrifice all that they are for it.

And i'm not saying people shouldn't compromise. They absolutely SHOULD. Because that is healthy relationships in nutshell. But NOT at the expense of surrendering who you are as a person. A truly strong person is ok with being alone with the right reasons rather than being with someone for the wrong ones.

What amuses me is the people who will reject someone who has dated no one (or few people) because they view there's something wrong with her or him. But then they eagerly date someone with a very checkered dating past and have a habit of one failed relationship after another. Don't get me wrong, i'm not here to tell anyone who to date, or what they should find attractive. But you people wonder why your relationships fail so much.🤦‍♂️😆

[FunkyMonkee]

the ONLY thing "wrong" with them is that they either CHOSE to be single, they're just too shy or don't know how to meet potential lovers or they simply haven't yet found the right one for them.
Most likely, it's other people that have the problem! They get it in their head that there's something wrong or just never give them any kind of a chance!

[Calyptomaniac]

I don't assume anything about them. There are endless numbers of factors and reasons why everyone is exactly where they are in their life and there's no point in guessing without knowing. After you ask (if you get an answer, because sometimes you ask people questions... more than once... but you don't get an answer), then maybe you can see some possible reasons.

[lilBigPotato]

I assume it's by choice unless they tell me something else.

[Shrimpenjoyer]

It usually isn't, guys don't sex as easily girls.

[lilBigPotato]

@Shrimpenjoyer he asked about adults, not guys specifically.

[Mark_Est]

A woman who is a virgin is a good thing. A woman who values herself instead of letting some guys just f her. And men only date women like that, thus respect it.

Men being virgins is usually more dependant on their situation. If they are choosing to be single or choosing to live a life of low value.

[Tomislav7]

Adult virgins male - Gay in denial, Unattractive, Horrible character

[Shrimpenjoyer]

Your mom

[Tomislav7]

@Shrimpenjoyer you as well

[Sammy098]

Nope. It's weird to judge without knowing the person

[queenofcardio]

That's not my first assumption

[Zionne]

sometimes i guess