When you hear adults say that have been single for many years, or that they are virgins, did you assume that something is wrong with them?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

No. Some people live by personal codes and will not sacrifice it for anyone. Anyone can get a date if they really wanted to sacrifice all that they are for it.

And i'm not saying people shouldn't compromise. They absolutely SHOULD. Because that is healthy relationships in nutshell. But NOT at the expense of surrendering who you are as a person. A truly strong person is ok with being alone with the right reasons rather than being with someone for the wrong ones.

What amuses me is the people who will reject someone who has dated no one (or few people) because they view there's something wrong with her or him. But then they eagerly date someone with a very checkered dating past and have a habit of one failed relationship after another. Don't get me wrong, i'm not here to tell anyone who to date, or what they should find attractive. But you people wonder why your relationships fail so much.🤦‍♂️😆

FunkyMonkee · Accepted Answer

the ONLY thing "wrong" with them is that they either CHOSE to be single, they're just too shy or don't know how to meet potential lovers or they simply haven't yet found the right one for them.
Most likely, it's other people that have the problem! They get it in their head that there's something wrong or just never give them any kind of a chance!

Calyptomaniac · Accepted Answer

I don't assume anything about them. There are endless numbers of factors and reasons why everyone is exactly where they are in their life and there's no point in guessing without knowing. After you ask (if you get an answer, because sometimes you ask people questions... more than once... but you don't get an answer), then maybe you can see some possible reasons.

lilBigPotato · Accepted Answer

I assume it's by choice unless they tell me something else.

Mark_Est · Answer

A woman who is a virgin is a good thing. A woman who values herself instead of letting some guys just f her. And men only date women like that, thus respect it.

Men being virgins is usually more dependant on their situation. If they are choosing to be single or choosing to live a life of low value.

Tomislav7 · Answer

Adult virgins male - Gay in denial, Unattractive, Horrible character

Sammy098 · Answer

Nope. It's weird to judge without knowing the person

queenofcardio · Answer

That's not my first assumption

Zionne · Answer

sometimes i guess

When you hear adults say that have been single for many years, or that they are virgins, did you assume that something is wrong with them?

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If someone was single and still a virgin by late 20s and it wasn't by choice do you think the reason (s) for that are probably obvious to others?

When you hear adults say that have been single for many years, or that they are virgins, did you assume that something is wrong with them?

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If someone was single and still a virgin by late 20s and it wasn't by choice do you think the reason (s) for that are probably obvious to others?

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