With people often mistaking friendliness for attraction, are you someone who is direct and makes it clear when you think someone is good looking?

[Anonymous]

Yes

Depends on my comfort level with person

Nope that's why it's hard to spot

[Lesbologist]

This is what a pick up line from me sounds like...

"I think you're hawt, and if you grabbed my penis, I'd love it"

and that's it. I don't need to sell myself further. She can reject me and I don't give a shit. Not grabbing my dick and putting it in her mouth is rejection enough and I move on. I'm not a salesman, I'm just a guy that makes an offer.

[Anonymous]

No! I'm not going to pump her ego. Too many guys do that already and that's primarily whats wrong with the dating scene. There's A LOT more to a woman than just her outward appearance. And if i'm interested in her i'm going off more than that.

Now i do make it very clear when i have INTEREST in her though. If she cannot tell the difference of a friendship, and a guys attraction to her, that's something SHE needs to work on.

[queenofcardio]

I try to be smooth about it, but yeah, it’s extremely obvious when I’m flirting or when I find someone attractive.

[Asker]

Ever flirted with people online? Is it the same as you would do in person?

[queenofcardio]

I'm the same online and offline.

[Asker]

Got it. One more thing, ever flirted with someone you didn't find attractive? People will do that sometimes and confuse people. Do ya flirt on here too? Haha

[Nikki1989]

You can't do that with most men. Their heads swell to monumental proportions.