Polls: Dating

(I am female) Initially, he would call or text me every 3days. after had gone on a couple of dates & I slept him with I noticed that he wouldn’t talk to me as much-maybe about 1x a week to 1 x 10 days. Once he called saying he had a cold. I wished him a speedy recovery. I didn’t check up on him throughout the week bc we hadn’t been speaking much and a cold is common. Turns out he thought he may have had covid. I feel like he was upset that I didn’t check up on him.
The next time he reached out, I raised that we don’t speak much. He said he doesn’t have much time with work/studying & he told me that I could also initiate texting.
He texted me then ghosted a question I had texted him in response. I had him on a language app where he would log in everyday & he even click a button to congratulate me on it. I decided to unfollow him the language learning app a week after getting ghosted bc I would constantly get notifications but he told me he was too busy to call/ text. Underneath the text where he ghosted me, he sent me a text saying ouch- bc of the language app. I didn’t reply which isn’t nice of me- but didn’t want to get ghosted again & I thought it was cheeky that he didn’t apologise for ghosting me but was offended at my reaction.
After 1week, I decided I would call him. I was planning on communicating to why I unfollowed him on the language learning app. He was so awkward on the phone & asked me why I unfollowed him & I told him it’s bc we haven’t been speaking much so I found it weird to constantly get notifications on your progress everyday. He said communication goes both ways & I replied saying I made the call. He said ‘he’ll return the favour ‘. He sounded upset/ passive aggressive & wouldn’t talk much. There was an awkward silence - so I decided to end the call with him. A couple hours later I tried to call back bc I didn’t want to leave our communication on a sour note. He didn’t call back. After 10 days of not hearing back. I blocked him on everything.
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It wouldn't be you asking about their exes, it would just be the person being honest, and telling you.

Went on two dates with a girl I met online. After the second date she tells me she just wants to be friends. I tell her sure, and told her to hmu if she wanted to hang out to put the ball in her court, assuming she would not. However, she actually does, and we message regularly and meet up here and there, strictly as friends.

i just reconnected with a girl I knew from college, and we’ve both decided to give dating a shot. AITA for wanting to fade the friendship with the girl I met online? I don’t really to put in the effort for another friendship, especially one with a girl I barely know. Again, I thought she was hitting me with the let’s be friends line to let me down gently, and wouldn’t actually message me again.

Like they were your age, but you thought they were 5 years younger than you, or if you were 30, and they were 23, but looked 19, if you were 35, and they were 27, but looked like they were 22, etc

There have been occasions with quite successful women who make very nice livings, who evidently did not want to talk to me again after that, and they really did not make any serious effort to split the bill, and seemed perfectly content to let me pay for it. I hate buying stuff for people who don't care about me. I find it very frustrating. I'm a very generous person if someone does care about me, but it makes me furious when I feel I am taken advantage of in some way.