This guy approached me when he already knew his female friend for about a year. I rejected him and a few months later they are a couple. Did he at the time consider me a plan B or backup for her or was she the consolation prize?
It's impossible to know for sure, but if he pursued you first, then you were his first choice.
why would it matter if you didn't even want him? lol I hate people like this, they reject someone and then get all offended to find out they weren't even their first option. UGH so full of yourself. if you didn't want it, what difference does it make if you were someone's second choice? Clown.
Could be neither one. Him being rejected by you and then dating his best friend might be totally unrelated. But why do you care? You rejected him.
Most guys have several irons in the fire when they're talking with women. She probably ranked just as high as you before you rejected him.
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most guys pursue any woman that will have him. Everyone is a consolation prize lol
He was crushing on you. You rejected him. Then he realized that there was a good woman in front of him all along. Maybe he had some notion of what he wanted, then when you turned him down her realized that something he thought was important really wasn't.
If he is attracted to his female best friend, most likely he would have wanted her over anyone else and just didn't express his feelings before. If they were best friends she has the personality he likes, so as long as he thought she was a 5 or better in looks it is likely she would be his first choice.
Most people don't think that way.
If you rejected him, you're not a match. If she accepted him and they get along great, then she's a match. There is no backup, or consolation prize, or settling involved, because thats not the right mindset when picking a partner.
You either love someone, or you don't. There is no "well this isn't what I wanted but its better than nothing" thought process,
It is a complicated thing. There are a lot of moving parts. The timing is important as is what the relationship was like beforehand.
Sounds as Though the Bestie is The Best from The Restie. lolxxoo
Guys don't think about it like that. He's just keeping his options open
I can't say for sure but I'd like to inform you that I operate on a strict first come first serve basis policy. Dm and maybe we can see if a bending of the rules is possible, thanks and happy holidays
In real life, how old are you? This is the kind of question a 13 year old would ask.
Either way it doesn't matter, you rejected him.
Another woman, diff. from either one
Why should he date a girl who rejected him?
Wow you're overthinking.
Move on you shouldn't care
His Mom, I suppose?
Which one of you has a hotter body?
They usually always like their fbf
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