My new boyfriend has a female friend that I don't like.
This girl was one of his best male friends girlfriend. That's how he met her. The friend and the girlfriend were together for 3 years.
My boyfriend, his friend and the now ex girlfriend were close friends who routinely hung out together.
Anyway, this girl is now single or so (I saw her with a guy and my boyfriend last week) but I'm not sure if the guy is her new boyfriend or another friend or someone related to her.
What I don't like about this is how my boyfriend pats her on her shoulder. It's more like how guys pat each other but I still don't like it. He was prioritising her before we dated. Always going out with her, attending events, taking her to the picnic etc. He wouldn't see me or talk for weeks but was always with her.
She has probably friendzoned him or does not see him romantically hence he got together with me
I also saw her touch his arm and give him a quick hug when he said he was feeling cold (before we got together). I ve seen him pat her on the shoulder before as well (while she was still with his friend). He had also been to her graduation ceremony a few months ago (after her break up).
Furthermore, I discovered some pictures of him and his classmates (with whom he's not very close friends) on a picnic and SHE was there with him. They were both wearing white sweaters. She is also the one whom he calls to discuss all problems etc.
He also attended a lecture on her country last month and she came with a guy and she left with the guy buy throughout, my boyfriend and her kept talking, she patted his arm, hugged and he patted her on her shoulder.
Before we started dating, I also saw how she scolded him for checking out other girls (in a funny way) by saying he needs to stop being a "hoe" (he was hooking up a lot before we started dating). He's clearly in love with her isn't it? The fact ye became so close to her after the ex boyfriend left shows he always had his eyes set on her?
