My (24) boyfriend (25) has a bff who is lesbian she was kinda rude to me upon meeting her and boyfriend's other friend (as if I was stealing him or smth) they have no boundaries and he always tells me (proudly) how she asked him to call her things like "the hottest ass of the west" and stuff like that. But what bothers me the most is that he's always comparing me to her, like if I don't like something or don't wanna do something he says "well she likes it" "she does it all the time!" Even after very intimate moments he lights up suddenly and says things like "oh I thought I saw her but it wasn't her" He also tags her on lots of sexual things online (while I'm a secret cause he says he's afraid his mom will nag him for having a girlfriend so he NEVER tags me in anything or posts photos, nothing) When I tried to talk about it (at first only about how I felt unwelcomed) he told her everything I said so I don't have a lot of trust anymore...
If I say I dislike certain jokes or things she likes he sometimes gets mad and passive aggressive. Also he often cancels dates to go play games with his friends (we only meet once a week he sees them -including her- every day) I'm really thinking about breaking up with him, I asked him not to cancel me suddenly unless necessary cause it hurts me but sometimes he won't even tell me he cancels! I just find out a day or so before that he made plans with his friends in the day of the date and when confronting him he'll just say "sorry you can come if you want to" :( I feel like he wants me to become his friend and at the same time to be only a replacement he can put away and take out whenever he wants We never do anything I like, only things he and his friend like, I tried talking to him but he just says sorry and do it again and again Am I exaggerating? Or should I really break up with him?
