I got upset that I've barely heard from him all week. He got mad at me for being upset when it was the anniversary of the death of my son and he didn't want to come over. I don't expect him to understand because he has never lost a child before but I felt like he could've at least came over and cuddled and held me, instead of acting like I was making a big deal of nothing. He went on a trip 2 hours away and it is now 3 days of him totally ignoring me. We had a conversation about him in the past about him keeping some contact with me. Even if it's just twice a day. In the past when he started ignoring me, he was caught sending sexual text messages to another woman (who turned out to be one of my lesbian female friends catfishing him on her own accord. I didn't ask her to do that but she did because she things he's a sleezebag), making plans to meet up for sex. I was going to break up with him back then because I felt like if he really loved me, he would've shut it down right away by saying that he has a girlfriend and isn't interested. I decided to give him a 2nd chance because I love him. He claimed that he never planned to actually meet up with her, gave me a personalized ring after that and wore a matching one, said that he'd work hard to regain my trust. Things were going well until recently. I'm not going to blow up his phone with texts or phone calls. I have this rule of 2 where if I make 2 attempts to contact someone and they don't respond, I will not try to contact them again. I will wait to hear back from them. Should I assume that this 3 days of ignoring me is his way of breaking up with me or do I just continue to give him space by not contacting him and waiting for him to contact me? This is so frustrating.
What do I do about my boyfriend ignoring me for 3 days now?
