So, I'm not usually one to go to a forum seeking answers and resolve but I'm here to get an objective opinion about my situation.
Last year, my boyfriend ignored me for 6 weeks. Bear in mind that there was no argument or such to provoke this. Obviously I gave him space and I reached out to him every now and then asking if he's okay and that I'm here for whenever he's ready. However, despite my attempts, he actively ignored me to the point whereby he didn't even reach out on our 2 year anniversary. He eventually called me at 1am to apologise and that he missed me, only to inform me that he has to go to the airport soon because he's going on holiday with another girl to celebrate their friendship?
Me being me, I forgave him and moved on. Over the last year, he would always 'vanish' for a week here or a several days there with no explanation. Sometimes, I don't ask for reasons because I don't want to push him away as a consequence. On our 3 year anniversary, things seemed to be going rather well. Yet, this is where the second episode starts. He's been ignoring me for 5 weeks now and frankly, I'm fed up. I gave him space for 3 weeks before I decided to reach out to him and he responded back saying that 'nothing bad happened'. I don't know what to do as I feel like my patience has been taken advantaged of.
Just out of curiosity, what would you do in this scenario. Any viewpoints are more than welcome.
Thanks! :)
Last year, my boyfriend ignored me for 6 weeks. Bear in mind that there was no argument or such to provoke this. Obviously I gave him space and I reached out to him every now and then asking if he's okay and that I'm here for whenever he's ready. However, despite my attempts, he actively ignored me to the point whereby he didn't even reach out on our 2 year anniversary. He eventually called me at 1am to apologise and that he missed me, only to inform me that he has to go to the airport soon because he's going on holiday with another girl to celebrate their friendship?
Me being me, I forgave him and moved on. Over the last year, he would always 'vanish' for a week here or a several days there with no explanation. Sometimes, I don't ask for reasons because I don't want to push him away as a consequence. On our 3 year anniversary, things seemed to be going rather well. Yet, this is where the second episode starts. He's been ignoring me for 5 weeks now and frankly, I'm fed up. I gave him space for 3 weeks before I decided to reach out to him and he responded back saying that 'nothing bad happened'. I don't know what to do as I feel like my patience has been taken advantaged of.
Just out of curiosity, what would you do in this scenario. Any viewpoints are more than welcome.
Thanks! :)
