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Polls: Dating

What is the ideal time frame between the first and second date?

If you went on a successful date, when would you ideally like to see the person again? (On average)
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If you went on a successful date, when would you ideally like to see the person again? (On average) Show More
The next day
2-3 days later
4-5 days later
6 - 9 days later
10 - 13 days later
2 weeks - 3 weeks later
3 weeks or later
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Am I lying to myself thinking I’m better off being alone?

28F, I haven’t dated someone in years & haven’t met someone from a dating app in over a yr. I’m at the point where I just don’t feel the desire to be active on them & use them kind of sporadically throughout the week. I’m...
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28F, I haven’t dated someone in years & haven’t met someone from a dating app in over a yr. I’m at the point where I just don’t feel the desire to be active on them & use them kind of Show More
Yes
No
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Do you think men or women are more likely to jump to conclusions based off of a single statement or do you think they're equally likely?

Ex. "I don't like your outfit." Who'd think this has a deeper meaning than what has been said? Ex. "I'm sick so I can't meet you today." Who's more likely to think of this as a rejection or that something else is going on...
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Ex. "I don't like your outfit." Who'd think this has a deeper meaning than what has been said? Ex. "I'm sick so I can't meet you today." Who's more likely to think of this as a Show More
Men
Women
Equally likely
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Would you agree to go to Mexico with someone you just met on the first date?

You met someone online, you chat for two weeks, you have a great first date. They invite you to go to Mexico with them next month on a two-week trip. Do you say yes, no or what?
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You met someone online, you chat for two weeks, you have a great first date. They invite you to go to Mexico with them next month on a two-week trip. Do you say yes, no or what? Show More
I say yes, absolutely!!!
Hell no, that's crazy!!!
I say something else (please provide a response.)
results
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Refined dignified and statesmanlike
More casual
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Do you expect to have sex on the first date?

Do you see it as a waste of time/money if the other person won't put out on the first date? https://www.youtube.com/embed/tycbTXPdkDo Saw this video the other night and wanted some opinions. This question is more for...
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At the start of sleeping with my boyfriend he used to take ages was it because he wasn’t attracted to me?

He’d only slept with overweight girls before me and I’m petite. I wasn’t into sex much either. But he’d take 30-40 mins. He went to the gym daily and was super fit. He said he was trying to impress me since he knew I...
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He’d only slept with overweight girls before me and I’m petite. I wasn’t into sex much either. But he’d take 30-40 mins. He went to the gym daily and was super fit. He said he was Show More
Wasn’t attracted to me at the start
Something else
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Do you like to be 'chased' while dating someone?

Are you the type that likes being chased? as in you pull away or go cold and want them to chase after you? they constantly message you hoping you give in and reply?
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Are you the type that likes being chased? as in you pull away or go cold and want them to chase after you? they constantly message you hoping you give in and reply? Show More
Yes i like being chased
no i don't like to play that game
I like chasing but not being chased
i like to be chased and do some chasing too
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Who would you date girls? The one better looking or with more money/higher status?

Let's take into consideration that they both meet your other requirements.
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Let's take into consideration that they both meet your other requirements. Show More
Handsome but poorer guy
Rich/high status guy but less handsome
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And is there anything you did to reduce that number? Show More
typically just 1
2-4
4-10
10+
💀💀
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"A modern woman only has about 15 years between 18 to 33, to find a good man and get married, but mostly spend that time being picky & entitled." T/F?

Inspired by this question here. Some stupid feel-good articles here lying to older women about their prospects. https://www.youtube.com/embed/CCGpnP4WT9A A modern Western woman mainly only has between the age of...
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Yes
No
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Add Opinion 29 49

Does no always mean no when asking out a girl?

Say, I have asked a girl out and she said no. Should I chase after her or let it go?
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Say, I have asked a girl out and she said no. Should I chase after her or let it go? Show More
Stop chasing her
It really depends the way she said it
She just wants to play with you, continue to flirt
None of the options above
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Is it ok that my girlfriend is talking and dancing to other guys in a club and she gives them her instagram to follow?

Me and my girlfriend are doing long distance relationship. She moved to another country for her dream job. Our relationship is realy great except one fact. She likes to meet new guys. She dances with them in the club,...
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Me and my girlfriend are doing long distance relationship. She moved to another country for her dream job. Our relationship is realy great except one fact. She likes to meet new guys. Show More
Yes, its normal
No, it's not ok
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Is it considered cheating if a woman has an open Instagram account while in a relationship?

If you want more context just watch the video. Let's try and argue the rule and not the exception because we all know there are always "one off's" in life where a woman would have an open Instagram account while in a...
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Is going to McDonalds acceptable for a first date nowadays?

A guy I met on a dating site wanted to bring me to McDonalds for our first date, which I refused to go. He then told me how women he’s been on dates in the past had no issue with going to that type of place on a first...
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A guy I met on a dating site wanted to bring me to McDonalds for our first date, which I refused to go. He then told me how women he’s been on dates in the past had no issue with going Show More
Yes
No
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Do you think backward rationalisation as described in the article below actually happens in dating?

https://www.girlschase.com/content/what-backward-rationalization-and-how-it-affects-you-girls
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https://www.girlschase.com/content/what-backward-rationalization-and-how-it-affects-you-girls Show More
Yes it happens
No it does not happen
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After FIRST date , if a girl let a guy to hang out to her place , is she want to have sex?

detail story: a guy is in holiday trip to japan , he is at osaka , then he tried bumble to get a date , later he get one so they hang out at bar for drinks , the girl only drink one glass , it went really awkward because...
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detail story: a guy is in holiday trip to japan , he is at osaka , then he tried bumble to get a date , later he get one so they hang out at bar for drinks , the girl only drink one Show More
she want to have sex
she is just being nice by inviting him to her place
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Yes
No
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Add Opinion 3 3
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Girlfriend isn’t good at kissing
Something else
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Add Opinion 0 3
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