Could you date someone who is separated looking at getting divorced or getting divorced?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[lightbulb27]

I have. It worked out for us. The problem with divorces is they can drag on long time.

The real question is if the emotional/financial issues are stabilized and the person is healthy to date. That is "rebound person" and a bad idea. The divorcees like that to fill a hole, but they really need to be healthy first. Emotional issues what they are, often get ignored in favor of using the other person so they feel good again, which is temporary becuase they haven't solved their problems.

[Avicenna]

Casually, yes. But I would be sure to keep our finances and residences separate.

[Guy13]

Nope. One full year post divorce for me.

[Finchie40]

Date yes but fully committing to her no meaning we can fuck and have fun together but I won’t fully commit to her until her divorce is finalized , Cuz there is a possibility she will go back to her husband

[Anonymous]

No. I had that problem with the last woman I fancied. She was going through the process of divorce, but wasn't officially divorced. And I think I made her mad because I told her I wouldn't date her if she was still married. Wedding vows are important to me. It cost me the relationship as other men didn't draw that same line I did. The ironic thing is I think the guy she started dating are over already. And now I am taken. So, u guess we just weren't meant to be.

[LiamJHayden]

No. Quite a few end up reconciling before finalization. An exception would be if she had been abandoned and filed for divorce by publication after being unsuccessful in locating him for normal service.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Nah, too much drama. This is the biggest gray area in relationships and shouldn't be fucked with.

[KrakenAttackin]

"Date", sure... every which way, as often as possible.

[panamared1]

yes, but knowing it well probably not get serious, would most likely be too soon for her

[Anonymous]

No, it sounds like a recipe for trouble.

[Anonymous]

If she have something good to offer than why not?