Would You Date Someone Who’s in middle of a divorce?

[Angie03]

[Jennz6]

What if they don’t tell me?

[slatyb]

Then as soon as you find out you dump them. by the way divorce filings are public.

[Nikki1989]

Possibly.

[Account]

No. I would rather not get burdened with another person's problems. I have plenty of my own.

[Finchie40]

Yes , I just wouldn’t rush into things with them

[godfatherfan]

I will not date anyone that is still legally married... period. I don't care if they have been separated 10 years. Helping someone cheat is worse then the person cheating.

I started dating about 3 months after my divorce was final. I was not anywhere close to being ready to date (The divorce was not my idea and I didn't want it.). Knowing how I was, I will also not date anyone within 1 year of their divorce being final.

[lightbulb27]

I have and I've seen and it work out. But is a risky thing. Best to understand "where is the relationship". That's more important.

If they are still hanging on by fingernails emotionally, then like the pilot of the airplane said... "bail out bail out"... cause your better off with the parachute!

[Alex-Snow]

Only if she was 100% ok with it and not having issues with the divorce which would mess up our dates. It might be best to wait till it is over then ease into it. But then again I'm a bit young to be dating a divorcee (M19) Is this something you are contemplating?

[bobby_bush_eater]

No. The divorce must be 100% finalized.

Honestly I would also have to agree with why she's getting a divorce, firstly I'm religious and there's only 2 reasons for divorce in the eyes of the church, and secondly I'm pretty young so I'd be curious how she's already divorced.

[nawtee_me]

That depends, I would certainly be there for her and support her through it. I think they have to settle things without a third party putting it their two cents though. Dating comes after they are over the ithrr one. No need for a three some with the ex if they still have issues with the ex.

[dustybiker2]

That's right up there with dating someone during covid lockdown. Probably wise to delay a bit.

[RingOfFire]

Even if you double mask?

[dustybiker2]

I was waiting for someone to say this. •🎩 tip•

[provokeesmokee]

Depends. That begins with transparency and truth.

Some exes can be insane, and delay or fight divorce just to spite their ex.

[DishLady]

Nope. I didn’t subject anyone to that mess and I certainly wouldn’t subject myself to that sort of situation.

[DizzyDesii]

They have to be fully divorced. No ”separated” bullshit

[PreferNot2Say]

Nope! Not again, anyways lol. You'll get pulled into their drama and it'll most likely end your relationship with them. It's not worth it, trust me.

[mandyfire98]

I dated a guy who was separated but not divorced yet.

[adam6402]

Hell no. I'm not even dating anyone who's HAD a divorce, let alone in the middle of one

[Rangers]

Wait until everything is finalized, while also acknowledging that the odds of leading a successful relationship with someone who's divorced is very slim

[Rangers]

Although for you, I'd find it hard to resist. You're very cute m

[slatyb]

Perhaps -- it's better to wait until the divorce is final.

[Agape93]

No that could mess up what they may be trying to do

[thegreenyogi]

Sounds a bit too complicated to me so no I wouldn't.

[MisterWack]

No, I don’t want that drama in my life… Also I feel like they can’t focus on a future relationship until they finish their sinking ship of the last one.

[Fireguy17]

Yes I have done that twice.

Wasn't a big deal.

[sheikalana]

Nope. I would only date them when the divorce is finalized.

[Phoenix98]

Nope that's something I have no intention of getting caught in the middle of.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Sounds like something that can cause unwanted complications, why not just wait until it ends

[SotiCoto]

Not if I was going to have to shoulder any of their drama... no.

[edmwarrior]

No I wouldn’t. That would give me trust issues since she’s so quick

[WhitneySnow]

No. I would wait till they are finished. It’s usually only a few months, though some people can take years if kids or money are involved.

[worldscolide]

Never. Not until it's over and done with. I'd be her friend, support her emotionally, but actually dating, no. And that's to benefit her case as well as protecting my self.

[bolverk]

No, not until their divorce is done and dusted.

[imfreeze95]

No that’s called adultery. Until they are no longer in that relationship I would not date someone

[legalboxers]

½ and ½ - one hand you can be there for them.. on the other.. rebound

[Anonymous]

yes it would probably be great sex because he would be so grateful and you could come and go as you please, which i like

[genericname85]

nope. gonna let them figure their shit out first.

[Booklover_90]

No. Since it is not finalized, they’re still legally married.

[Anonymous]

Maybe, depends if they are really getting one but I hate to be the rebound

[Quigly]

Dating is fairly harmless. The relationship would certainly not go any farther than dating until divorce was finalized.

[Anonymous]

"Date" in every position possible, but not take seriously.

[LiamJHayden]

Not knowingly. I've seen too many reconcile just before the divorce is final.

[HelpfulWoman]

if they're actively getting divorced, maybe.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

I'd advice against it.

[Chazmatazz269]

I wouldn’t date a woman in any stage of divorce.

[EmmaMary]

No, absolutely not.

[exitseven]

No, I would wait until the papers were signed.

[DrPepper12]

No. Too much baggage.

[handsomelad70]

Don't believe so.

[HawkPerception]

Not likely. But there is a small chance.

[ICanSmellTheCosmos]

No. It's too soon. After a few years, yes.

[thisAppIsGarbage]

Only if she had his house.

[MatureMan40]

Depends on the case.

[dolemite58]

Nah sounds messy still

[QuietRunner]

depends on who it is

[MasterKS]

Yes, i do and did it before.

[sage2021]

No I wouldn't.

[Ilovepeace67]

No. Too messy. I don't do messy or drama.

[Wise4myage]

Sure, its just a fling.

[Tim2nice]

Yes. I would

[Asian-male]

No... it should be after divorce

[Asian-male]

And marriage is better than dating..

[jahaims]

No lol

[DreamLife7]

Lol no.. girl think

[Loner111]

Nope

[In_Trance]

Yeah