I think it would be silly. I know people that have had six or seven failed long term relationships in a 20 year span that never made it to marriage. Yet I know people that have been in two marriages in that same amount of time. Does that mean you won’t be with the divorcée because they actually went through the trouble of getting the court papers? Relationships fail and to me a person that has had six or seven long term partners is much worse catch than someone who actually married two of their partners and failed.
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I'd be very interested in the why. I wouldn't completely rule it out though.
Well does she have kids?
I mean I'm only 29 if she's around my age and already got divorced twice that's a really big red flag.
If she also has kids with the two guys, then that would be a resounding never.
I mean hell I do not want to deal with that kind of a head ache.
It would depend.
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I don’t think so, I think that serves as reference that that person has failed to maintain a relationship and has made “poor decision” in the past and they might be carrying some luggage from those past relationships too. 🤷🏻♀️
If there are kids or baggage that came with the divorce, then no. I'm simply not ready for those burdens.
But if no kid and just a little legal baggage that I could cope, then why not if I love the person? That divorcee is probably wiser now and our future may work because I'm different from her ex.Usually by that time the person would be older than me 😂 so hell no on the simple fact that I only get with people my age.
But hypothetically, if the person was my age, I’d think that they have shitty taste in partners and that I’m the improvement 😉 so it’d be cool with me—unless they are shitty themselves of courseNo. I wouldn't date a person who has been divorced once.
If I ever end up divorced myself and was looking again and was in an older dating bracket than I'd open it up to divorced people.
Up till now that has always been a deal breaker. I've turned down dates over this before.
I've never been married, my fiancé has never been married which is the only way I would have done it.Maybe depends on why they divorced.
I would say yes if they got divorced because the partner left them for a younger girl. Which means she will most likely cater to you and try to please you more. Which most likely she will not cheat.
No if they divorced because she kept sleeping around or was abusive to their significant other.No, that tells me something is seriously wrong. If you can't make it work once or twice then marriage might not be for you.
Perhaps. It does raise certain flags though, doesn't it?
I feel like it would definitely make me more wary in considering the relationship, and I probably wouldn’t get involved until I talked to him about his past relationships.
Lol you are Mr. Set the Record Straight!
I would have to consider the circumstances of her divorces. I wouldn't rule her out automatically without discussing what happened etc.Lmao depends on what date implies. I would probably not expect anything long term considering his "record " but if I was attracted to him sure I would see him. And who knows... he could've just been unlucky and met wrong girls
This is tough. I think at my age its a bit ridiculous lol!
But assuming I am older and the woman is, I dont see why not. I would be open to dating her if she showed some genuine qualities, but I definitely wouldn't be in a rush to marry her lol.Yeah! Just wouldn't get married...
If you get divorced twice, your more than 90% likely to get divorced again. Not gonna take my chances
Nope I wouldn't unless I'm like in my 50s lol so guess it really depends. One divorce is fine but 2? I don't know.
It depends on the age. If we're 50 or 60 and he has divorced twice yes, if he's 30/40 and divorced twice probably not
I love how many women have answered "no" here. And for the record i don't blame them. If he' had 2 failed marriages then why wouldn't you be the 3rd. The funny part is i'm betting most of you don't hold women to the same standard. The guy risks just as much if not more everytime he says i do. I'm sure by a guy passing on a woman of the same situation you'd say he's being ridiculous.
Yes. I’d like to know the reason behind the divorces but unless cheating is involved, it always takes two to make a relationship work...
No. #1: Is against my religion of Christinity to mess around with a divorcee.
#2: Even if I wasn't a Christian I still won't deal with such a woman. Obviously the writing is on the wall that woman has problems where she can't keep a man.I will only say that you shouldn't judge a book by it's cover...
Depends on the situations of the divorces, but it's unlikely.
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