Would you date someone who has been divorced 3 times?

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Msputiton · Accepted Answer

Divorce is just a failed relationship that had been made official.

We act like dating and failing makes the relationship less of a toxic reason they got divorced.

We fail every relationship until we finally find the right person. There really is only 1 successful relationship for each person.

When you get married and it's not the right one you either suffer through it or get divorced.

But a failed marriage is the same as a failed non marriage relationship when it comes to the causes of the failure.(didn't find the right person)

Just they end up with consequences of alimony or child support. Child support could still result in a non married couple.

fonduegirl · Accepted Answer

Once is  not his fault , thrice  is kinda his fault

Guy13 · Accepted Answer

I never would... how much proof does one need that this person is not the marrying type.

coachTanthony · Accepted Answer

I am going to probably say NOOOOOO lol

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

Most likely not, but I would still give them the chance to explain it. What if they chose bad people who kept cheating on them? No one makes someone else cheat on you.

I can't believe someone would get married that many times, like geez... even if someone was cheating on you, screw getting married.

Avicenna · Answer

Probably not. One thing I definitely wouldn’t do is marry her or cohabit with her.

BlueScorpio · Answer

3 times? At the point I wouldn't even bother with a 4 and just stay single.

kylee2437 · Answer

Sounds like a turn off to me. With three failed marriages that seems like a situation where someone isn’t owning up to the harm they cause in relationships

DaveJord · Answer

I am dating some who had been divorced twice already... so why not? Doesn't mean I will be marrying her.

SteveSmith1985 · Answer

I would be weary. But It would depend on what the story was. But I would be weary.

libsaretards · Answer

Nope. This is someone who does not take marriage seriously. Either they rush into marriage or they do not have what it takes to stick through thick or thin for some reason. I can understand being divorced once, but once should be enough and make someone more careful.

If you are dating properly, you are not getting married until knowing someone AT A MINIMUM 2-3 years. Then you are married for however long and then the divorce takes time, plus you should be taking time to heal before dating again. That is with the first marriage and you should learn your lesson then.

If you get married a 2nd time, you should take the lessons learned the first time around. If the 2nd marriage fails after all of that, then it really is just not meant to be.

Paulalove98 · Answer

I have a boyfriend but if I was single the answer would be no only because I don't really wanna date nor be in a relationship with someone who's had that many setbacks or fails in their marriage the only exception I could think of is if they were cheated on or abused, or lost their spouse but if this was due to their fault or something is just going wrong over and over then no. I don't want a man with baggage just like men don't want a woman with baggage. It works both ways. If a guy has a kid, I wouldn't mind that as long as the mother and ex isn't a drama queen but being divorced 3 times is a red flag to me.

all_hayl · Answer

The people I’ve known who’ve been divorced more than once have also shown many other areas of their life where they lack discipline and judgement. They even referred to their second marriage as their “accidental marriage.” 😑

Overall it might depend on the circumstances. If they jump from marriage to marriage then that’s of course a major problem. I also know people who remained single for years after divorce so that they could learn, grow, and confront/fight their demons. I’d be much more confident approaching that situation.

ArrowheadSW · Answer

There is a lady who I re-connected with on social media, who I knew in college when I was 19. Since then, I see on public records, that she has been divorced 3 times. Now why this was, I don't know. Very pretty lady and smart and nice. However how I remember her in college and how she is on social media of course doesn't show the whole story. Could be a variety of reasons, some of which might be her issue, or the issues of the previous husbands. Anyway I do plan on meeting up with her sometime next year. She lives about 4 hours away so it isn't like we are going to jump right into a dating relationship anyway... LOL

CrazyGirl2 · Answer

Probably not! I would not have any problem dating a divorced man, as sometimes things just don’t work out. If he were twice divorced, well then I guess if he had a good explanation sure why not…. But THREE divorces? Nah, there is definitely something up w/ that guy, he is just NOT cut out for marriage!

Rosexøxø · Answer

Depends on who divorced who.

If the person divorced all three, I’d believe that was their decision to avoid the high probability of being engaged to terrible people.. we don’t live in a perfect world..

if they were divorced three times by their three different partners, I would at least ask them about it, but I probably wouldn’t advance the relationship.. 🤷‍♀️

Anonymous · Answer

Hell yes I would more likely be open to a woman I am more prone to feel her soul has allowed her to fall for guys live the love then make a move? maybe after not being loved, for a guy I would be more cautious in the choices he makes and then it does not suit so he moves on... from young I realised mostly girls have to leave the guys, it will be pushed and pushed to the limit, guys will live in mundane or misery for much longer... and then be totally shocked on the fallout day! just my opinion of course from my experiences and what I've seen too... it would be cool to hear especially from guys where its your girl that isn't listening and you wanna walk?

mamuma02 · Answer

Date = sure

Marry= i would have some trust issues and ask him deeply first why he was divorced 3 times. And the i would investigate behind his back about it by asking her ex husbands, friends and family.

If there are no extreme red flag then i wiuld Mary him

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Anonymous · Answer

fuck no. i wouldn't even date someone who was previously married, previously engaged, or has had children. thankfully i don't have to deal with that. but damn... hell no. that baggage is just unbelievable.

Anonymous · Answer

Nope. I'll tell you why. I've been told EVERY DAY... sometimes multiple times daily, to "Take responsibility for my actions." I just saw a Craigslist ad locally a few mins ago... Single mom needs help. "Taking donations! Help! Single mom of 3 and currently pregnant and have nowhere to go!" Hmm... let's see. So she code AT LEAST 2, if not 3 or more baby daddy douchebags who ALL disappeared on her... she CHOSE them all. What opportunities she may have had... pissed them all away. I've seen women collect HUNDREDS of dollars panhandling with AND without kids... and even when I lost everything in a massive winter storm that shut down the entire state, people wouldn't give me so much as a can of bernie weenies. So... now I'm supposed to feel supportive towards someone who has made a CAREER out of making shitty choices, when I know for a fact the ONLY thing they've known how to do... is quit? That's suicidal. No thanks.👋

sheikalana · Answer

If he's genuinely a good person I think is worth giving them a chance. Some people are just unlucky when it comes to find someone to share a life with.

djmzes · Answer

Simple

sage2021 · Answer

Yes I would! Stuff happens and sometimes it's the fault of other people and not the person you are coupling with.

AmeerX · Answer

Had I been younger I would say no. My preference is a virgin like myself but I will forego it if she was pretty, had no or just one boy and her ex will not contact her.

I feel bad for these people hating a girl like her. Please have mercy, God watches your judgmental comments

connemara_crocodile · Answer

That's a clear indicator that there's something wrong with that person when it comes to relationships. Red flag for me.

Anonymous · Answer

Nah. I don’t like to rule anyone out because everyone has their individual reasons and some can be valid. But in all honesty, I dated a divorced guy (giving him the benefit of the doubt) and it turned out he said he doesn’t think he’ll ever be over his ex. So I couldn’t run with it anymore after a couple of years because I didn’t want to constantly feel like I’d never compare to his ex.

Daniela1982 · Answer

Besides several exceptions, I would never marry a divorced man, so what is the purpose of dating one then?

Adam1978 · Answer

Not if I want a lasting relationship. She clearly can't handle that. So any dating with her should be seen as temporary. Until something with better potential shows up. This is the only time you should trade up when you got an unreliable partner.

dustybiker · Answer

Are you only here to ask divorce questions? Cause you might regret that handle otherwise. Just mentioning. If they were a great match, sure. Lot’s of reasons it could happen that many times.

loveslongnails · Answer

Absolutely not. I don't time to figure out what the heck was going on with those choices. She's probably damaged goods, so it would have to be an unusual circumstance.

DizzyDesii · Answer

I would prefer to date someone who has never been married

CubsterShura · Answer

Hypothetically, it doesn't sound like a problem. There are so many circumstances that can lead to a person divorcing 3 times.

SlothySlob · Answer

You know what they say, third time's the charm. But you're going into overtime now.

LovingLoverReturned · Answer

Hmm. I am naturally inclined to say no but it really depends. Someone can get bad lucky.. but thing is I would worry he is too picky and he will eventually get rid of me too.

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bayoubob · Answer

Date them? Sure. They had to be marriage material in the first place, right? Which isn't saying a lot. For you to even entertain the thought of dating them means you are probably old and flush with baggage yourself.

Kreneman · Answer

No, because there's something seriously wrong and there's a such thing as being emotionally wounded which takes time to heal for along time but the person may not change especially when they're the problem.

Emilyis · Answer

I would have to know why he got married so many times and what each divorce was about before I decided.

lilyanony1 · Answer

How did she get married even once... I can even keep a decent guy

DevikaButts95 · Answer

Yes as long as they meet my other standards.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

I wouldn’t date someone who has been divorced once.

AmyHew1tt · Answer

No. Once divorced, maybe. But three times . . . It would be clear he's the common factor, can't communicate, or won't put in the work.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

I’m always open for dates however I wouldn’t marry there person because I wouldn’t want to be victim number 4.

Swollerbear · Answer

Likely not. Using logical deduction, they possess toxic traits that are unsuitable in a marriage.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

Oh hell no. Getting married as a man is a shit deal as it is but getting married to a 3X failure of marriage... oh hell no.

Confusedashell123 · Answer

Personally when I was single I would not have. That is too much baggage for me

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Casually yes but there is no commitment or future with that person even divorced once as far as I'm concerned.

KaiidiraX · Answer

Not if I was looking for a long time commitment leading to marriage.

JDavid25 · Answer

Date? Like casually dating? Maybe.. For a bit.. Dating seriously with the thought of marriage? Nope..

Mangospacho · Answer

Statistically, if your goal is to get divorced, then it’s a good idea to marry someone divorced three times. There is less than a 1 in 10 chance of the marriage lasting after the 3rd divorce.

Quigly · Answer

If you don't have a problem passing all your Family inheritance and everything you worked toward down to kids that aren't your family and have no respect for you or your family. You are free to make any decision you want.

slatyb · Answer

Yes, but I would want to know what happened and what they had learned pretty quickly.

Razp_Sorbet · Answer

Probably not. If it's been that many times I would imagine they had at least some blame

flautistnaturist · Answer

Would you divorce somebody who had only dated three times?

Samscott456 · Answer

Probably not most especially if he claims all his exes were the crazy ones.

katiesmuff · Answer

I'd say No as the odds are not so good that #4 would last either!

wysiwyg2525 · Answer

No. They obviously cannot make it work on the third try. Who want leftovers and damaged goods.

FreyaRed · Answer

Yes, but I would ask him if he can afford a divorce more. lol

FireGodGoesSeeknFire · Answer

I am not officially opposed to it but its hard to imagine the situation in which that would happen.

Rania05 · Answer

It may be bad luck so no prejudice, as long as he doesn't have more than 2 kids

trina_x · Answer

i dont love marriage so i wouldn't want to be with somebody whod want to get married

MCheetah · Answer

Nah, I'm good. That's not a red flag; that's a radioactive flag covered in blood!

Kinkyhubby · Answer

I would Date them, probably won't Marty them. But then again I'm on my 2nd marriage, ND probably would never do a 3rd marriage. Even if this one ever fails. But so far so good.

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