I'm talking to a guy, is it normal to feel scared?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[Tenebrae_mentis]

Depends. Is it just because it's a guy? If so, then no, that's not really normal. Most people get used to being around the opposite sex pretty early in life, at least in most countries. If it's a specific guy, then nervousness may be common, depending on your views of that person or experiences with them.

[Asker]

Yes, cuz I like him

[Tenebrae_mentis]

Then yeah, that's normal. Good luck! I'm sure you'll be fine. :)

[Asker]

🥺 thank you

[Guy13]

I still get butterflies 🦋 in stomach and sweat runs down my side via armpits…. around my most recent one. It is normal to feel scared-like.

[Asker]

I like that thought of the guy on the other side

[Guy13]

That’s a good place to be. Make sure he treats you in a proper manner

[Craig67654]

Go for it. Either keep sending him signals that you like him so he asks you out or ask him out or even hang out. I tell my female friends that it's okay to make the first move. Find a time and place and just do it. Good luck!

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Some say you might have a case of the butterflies & others say you might have a case of the jitters. As for me I call it the (WHAT IF) & collywobbles you might have as well.

[FilmGuy93]

Pretty normal, but I guess it depends on what exactly you mean by feeling scared.

[Walrus_au]

Depending on the situation sadly it seems to be way too normal. and way too many males neither know, understand or accept this.

[YourToy69]

What kind of guy? Why scared if he is the normal kind?

[Anonymous]

Only when you are a perpetual victim looking for reasons to believe men are inherently evil.

[Summeroflove]

For sure.

[Iron_Man]

If you’re real shy

[Asker]

I am 🥲

[Iron_Man]

Unfortunately being really shy and not doing anything. Will get you a lot of lost boyfriend opportunities.

[Anonymous]

Yes, at first.