Is it normal to be deathly afraid of telling a guy you like him?

[Anonymous]

Either that or him finding out. I am scared shitless to even let a guy know how I feel about him. I have very bad luck with men where they aren’t very nice to me. It’s why I always keep my feelings to myself just so I don’t make a guy angry or feel disgusted.

[bowenw]

Normal. Just like how I am to tell a girl.
Try to get a read on how he feels about you and if you think he likes you, just tell him how you feel.

[Asker]

So far I haven’t had any luck.

[Asker]

It’s dangerous to tell someone you like them. You don’t how they’ll react.

[bowenw]

You never know. Just take an educated guess if they like you or not and then go for it.

[Asker]

Nah. I don’t want to take the risk of getting bullied and harassed.

[bowenw]

I would hope a decent guy wouldn't do that.

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[JackStany]

"Regret what you said before you die, not what you couldn't say." - Malcom X

[7Phoenix7]

So your experience with telling men you like them is them being angry or disgusted?

[Asker]

Or if they figure out I do like them. So, yes. That’s been my experience.

[7Phoenix7]

Yea then I would keep it to myself unless I knew for sure they liked me back.

[Asker]

I never had a guy like me back. It’s why I’ll always keep it a secret until those feelings go away.

[7Phoenix7]

I bet there are guys that like you but you might not notice them. Or ur not attracted to the guys that like you.

[Asker]

You’re right on the last part. But, it wouldn’t be right if I went out with them if I didn’t feel the same.
Honestly, I’m glad I said no because they didn’t turn out so good years later.

[Monalisa77]

I was scared before covid lockdowns but now im like f*** it lifes too short

[Anonymous]

No, it's normal. I wouldn't know though because I rarely get crushes and usually anyone who's ever liked me I never had feelings for them so it's the opposite for me lol.

[Anonymous]

I feel the same way about telling girls that I like them

[Jennz6]

I’m very careful too!