Polls: Dating

If there are several choose the one who you'd be least likely to date. If you don't have a sister, then that answer doesn't apply.

They are not huge debts but it's gonna take a while to pay them off. I have acquired those debts when I alone moved to Germany from a 3. rd world country (where hell broke loose basically) this year.

I saw here on GAG how many girls expect to be paid for. I also equally as much saw girls being OK with splitting the bill or that they prefer to split the bill for the first few times.

I'm tired of being single for so long and I'm even more sick about being expected having to squander money on "certain" girls like it's a gamble when I have accumulated some meaningful (not nonsensical) debts. I came here to make something of myself and not to be looked at like an open wallet. Those "certain" girls make me feel like the only way I can be qualified for relationships is by having money to squander on them. We have a name for that.

All you have to be is nice

Vs sheltered women, you have to go the long route of making them feel they are lesser than you

I usually get infatuated first then develop real genuine feelings... unless that person is extra special that is.

So the one thing I constantly hear is everyone is like “ I keep dating nothing but bitches” or “ All of my exes are nothing but assholes!!”.

I think there are truly some vile and wicked people in the world and I do think sometimes good people are just not good fits for each other but every single person in your past is truly that bad? Maybe some people don’t evaluate people properly. Who knows, I’m just spitballing and ranting.

What do you think?

Someone asked if women like watches. But i thought this question would be better

Or is asking out already telling them how you feel? I'm just seeing if it's necessary to be more vulnerable in these situations or just straightforward. Assuming it's someone you know more than a day at least, not a cold approach

Most women will never grasp what it is like being an average or even an above-average man and that women are not interested in us. I'm not gonna mention the "top 20% of men" because that's already a 'dead horse' to beat.

I think that women think, that we have girls messaging us on the regular kind of like as much as random blues are contacting them out of the blue.

It's not happening. At all. Most women show zero interest whatsoever. That's why many of us are single for a very long time.

My sister had a Cinderella complex and a very low opinion of herself after her boyfriend if about 4 years dumped her.

She dated two guys who were not really good people. They treated her like the best thing that ever happened to them, because she was. This eventually fixed her complex an restored her self-esteem (therapy also helped). Now she's dating a much better guy.

Have you ever dated someone who helped you get out of your own issues, but wasn't a good match for you?