Polls: Dating

There is a stereotype that men are more visual and usually have their minds made up with 30 seconds of meeting a woman if they are interested or not.

To a certain extent that’s true. If a girl is a 5 or below to me physically I am not going to be romantically interested no matter what her personality is. That doesn’t mean I won’t treat her respectfully and be friendly (if she’s got a cool personality). I won’t be rude if she happens to show me interest (will politely decline if need be) But I can’t develop feelings.

But I am thinking that many women are more superficial than ever nowadays when it comes to looks (except if they guy is rich and/or famous)

That’s not to say they shouldn’t have standards. I don’t expect a beautiful 22 yr old woman to not reject a chubby balding 35 yr old guy. But I notice that the less attractive a man is to a woman the more difficult, challenging and bitchy she will be to him.

I know this because I’m my 20s most women considered me a 8 to 9 physically. I’ve gotten older and while I am in great shape for my age the truth is most women see me around a 7 now. They are more difficult and rude in dating situations. They ghost more. I am held to a higher standard on my behavior on the first date.

I don’t expect everything to be willy nilly easy like it was when I was 25. But the fact that: “first impression (looks) = likeability = respect” is depressing.

If you had to choose one which would you choose for the rest of your life and don't lie xD

By gold diggers - I don’t mean completely, but like really attracted to money and guys that are super successful.

I’m really rich but it’s not written on my face so it’s hard to know what these girls are really like.

What’s the hard truth?

For me it’s a girls really pretty looks and genuine sweet personality that’s is my weakness

I did Part 1 and Part 2 here. Here's Part 3 cause I'm bored.

Anna Maria. Medium length black hair. Native American. Short (5'5"). Average-curvy build with D cups. Photographer. Is kind, sassy, and outgoing, but had a traumatic childhood, so can sometimes be moody. Very sweet if you're nice to her; your worst nightmare if you cross her.

Bianca. Long black hair. Medium-dark skin. Very short (5'3"). Thicc curvy body with DDD cups and a big butt. Grocery cashier and college student. Is silly, goofy, affectionate, and can be pretty funny, but also has low self-esteem and body image issues, and can be quite clingy.

Cynthia. Long wavy blonde hair. Pale light skin. Tall (5'9"). Athletic build with DD cups and a toned body. Marketing specialist manager. Is light-hearted, outdoorsy, loves farming, and has a light sense of humor, but not all that smart, and can be very stubborn.

Deandra. Long brown hair. Asian; light skin. Medium height (5'7"). Slender/slim build with a flat chest (A cups). Lawyer. Is Conservative, above-average in intelligence, and very pragmatic, but also has no sense or humor, and a bit serious most of the time.

Esmeralda. Wavy medium-length black hair. Hispanic; light skin. Very short (5'1"). Curvy build with C cups and a bouncy booty. Accounting college student. Calm, optimistic, artsy, and very girly, but also a bit fickle, superficial, and likes to be pampered often (from being girly).

Felicia. Long dark auburn hair. Pale skin. Extremely tall (6'5"). Full figured voluptuous body with huge G cups, wide hips, and a huge booty. Registered nurse and student. Warm, sweethearted, positive, affectionate, witty, intelligent, and loves cooking, but also very ambitious and has high standards for her career.

Gloria. Medium light-brown hair. Medium-light skin. Tall (5'11"). Medium build with B cups and toned arms. Sells used cars, but comes from a rich family. Stern, controlling, high maintenance, a feminist, hot headed, and judgmental, but upper middle-class.

tell me how sure you are of your answer too

On the last date she kept asking how far my place was and talking about her place and also nearly missed her last train home until I put her on it.