Polls: Dating

The biggest hatred towards Interracial coupling that I've ever seen has always been black men dating a woman that's white (or fair skin). Often time, the comments are filled with people slinging slurs at the women and telling her how badly she messed up her life by being with a black male. And interracial relationships are hard enough as it is, you got cultural differences, having to be accepted by each others family in real life, as well as, look of disgust/staring by people in real life. So I can totally understand why a lot of girls would not want the added difficulty of having to deal with racist online harassing them when they try to celebrate their relationship or post pictures of their interracial child.

Example, a white woman posting pictures with her half black child. A large % of her comments are insults towards her and her child.

You will NEVER EVER see this level of hatred if it were a white male with an interracial child.

I’ve been with my girlfriend Becky for a long time. I think I love her and I really enjoy spending time with her. However, she’s recently shared her ugly past with me. When she was in her younger years she had a rep of sleeping around.

She apparently was the school slut who got tagged teamed by the jocks. Becky even told me about how when she was 15 and had fuck buddies in their 30’s. And how when she was in university she dated 3 guys at once and caught chlamydia and gonorrhoea twice. Even used Only Fans to pay for school.

Even worse, she supposedly slept with other men when she was married. Her excuse was that her and her husband broke up and stayed married so he wouldn’t get deported.

After knowing all this I’m starting to look at her differently. Sometimes I see Becky the same way I see the woman in the picture. But it’s hard to leave Becky because she is trying really hard to make this relationship work. I’m a low value man with no proper education and job, and she makes feel like a high value man with the way she treats me. She really wants us to get married and keeps telling her friends Im gonna but her a ring. But it’s a tough decision for me.

She wants to meet my parents and I know they’re not gonna like her at all. My parents are and have always people skills. They can pick up on things.

The other day beck told me she’s having suicidal thoughts and being with helps her not think suicidal. She’s undergoing therapy atm.

What are the chances of a girl on here open to blind dating on here and at the very least chat and exchange photos and maybe it lead to a phone conversation and maybe a relationship.

Short term is fine but always open for long too.

Changes in yourself, what were they?