Ya ever went out with someone who was single for a while or never dated at all, then you found out the hard way why they were single?

[Anonymous]

Nope

Yes

[Nikki1989]

Yes, I have.

Single people remain single for a reason, and those reasons are rarely good.

[Asker]

What was the reason for the guy (s) you went out with?

[Shrimpenjoyer]

Madam that's very judgmental!
Some people just feel like being single or haven't found the right one.
Would you like it if someone said that for your son or daughter in the future?

[slatyb]

I met a few women when I was on match who may have fit that description. Most were very nice, and only one or two lied about their appearance.

[Anonymous]

Yeah. But now past 40 if a woman is single, there's a damn good reason why.😆 Good women do not stay single past a certain age

[DishLady]

Yeah. Very annoying waste of time.

[Shrimpenjoyer]

@DishLady and I hope this one experience didn't shape the way you think of men like that, right?

[DishLady]

It just ended, so I'm trying to fend off the sinking feeling that says "all men are like this"... It's not easy.

[Asker]

Can you vaguely explain what happened? How long was he single for before he was with you?

[DishLady]

I can but tbh I don’t want to. Just want to keep moving till that “stuck in quicksand” feeling goes away.

[Asker]

Oh ok. Let me just ask before this situation, did you think men who has been single forever or while might have some baggage or something that turns women off?

[DishLady]

No. What turns women off is when the jackass uses that as a “woe is me” excuse and then actively acts stupid…. It’s not like anyone lives in a vacuum away from all other humans and doesn’t learn or see standard, functional run-of-the-mill couples.

Some guys just want to stay single players with a sob story to make women feel sorry for them. It’s a nasty little habit.