Like they just seem like the type people would be attracted to? Like they’re very good looking, maybe very confident in how they carry themselves. You just get the impression that this is the type if person most would want in a relationship and yet they’re single for whatever reason. Ever thought that?
I've gotten that a few times lol. I got multiple reasons why but anyways ever had this feeling about other people?
I'll pick the third reason here too. Most people, especially girls who don't know me also ask me how and why I'm still single (even if they aren't even willing to date me, but ok) and it's one of those questions that after a while I've grown tired off and stopped answering altogether. Like, why are you even trying to ask me that if you aren't even interested? Just to poke fun at me?
Anyways, the answer I give people is pretty much what this meme you posted here says. I jokingly tell people I'm incapable of loving and for people to love, but the real answer is that I'm not interested in having a relationships at the moment. The confidence I have right now and the way I carry myself have all been the result of many long years of unsuccessful attempts at love, countless rejections and just plain abuse and bullying, and I don't plan on wasting any more time than necessary on people I'm not interested in or people who just wanna "be friends". No thanks, I have enough as it is. Don't need more.
Yeah I know a fairly large number of single people who you go ‘never, really?’
It can be hard for them meeting right people
No, I can’t remember ever thinking anything close to that! I assume you mean incredibly good looking? There are so many reasons to not want to be in a relationship, especially when you just got out of a relationship, and it was a very painful break-up. And then there are girls who were assaulted by a guy she dated, and may be terrified that it will happen again? The thing is we girls talk to each other about our problems and issues, so we usually know what someone is going through, and why they perhaps don’t want to get into another relationship this soon after whatever happened.
The one time that I AM surprised, or thought “wow”, is when someone I know goes through a bad break-up, and rather than take time to mourn the end of that relationship, they are right out with a new guy a few days later… Now THAT shocks me!
Yeah for my ex (now best friend who i could never imagine dating ) he's such a kind gentle soul and has had his heart played and broken so many times it baffles me why nobody decent wants to date him.
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s Someone I was flirting with last year before I met my partner. We were chatting everyday and I was thinking they’re amazing, how on earth are they still single? Then as the conversations started getting more personal, they started fetishising my past trauma and making me suuuuper uncomfortable. Later I come to find out that they’d sexually assaulted their ex many times, and still acted like they were the victim in their past relationship.
When you only know them on a superficial level one would wonder this, but in dating as much as I have (including successful, pretty girls) there is usually a very good reason they're single. Many have no idea how to go about getting into a relationship. Some entertain hookups because they don't understand dating, others will not even know how to keep up a conversation via text (with someone they're interested in). Others have bad habits, and toxic traits that guys run away from quickly.
I got that, a couple of times, from a woman who didn't believe I wanted to be alone.
That said, sometimes I thought that about a friend of mine - she's smart, beautiful, and hard worker - but then I think that she most likely prefers to be single, so I never bring up the issue.
s Yes, that happened to me a couple of times. There are some people I can't believe that they're single Lol
One of my girlfriends is gorgeous and has been single for years. I have no idea why.
That's been said about me a long time ago.
I didn't get married until I was 38.
I know one, but I assume that she is living her life exactly as she chooses. I could be wrong.
I'm that person that people wonder why I'm single
I wondered that much with both my exes because they were/are leagues above me
yes and it turned out a few drinks in her and she was a total bitch and it was only 1/2 a glass of wine, and i tried beer the same so left her.
Yes, I'm that person, and like you, there are myriad reasons why I'm single.
I have known people like that
I've gotten that a few times myself.
I don’t think I ever have
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