If you got together, with someone who hasn't dated in a while, would any of these reasons for why they were single turn you off, or seem weird?

[Anonymous]

It wouldn't be you asking about their exes, it would just be the person being honest, and telling you.

They say they were single, because of high standards, which led to them getting rejected often

They said they were single, because of insecurity/body issues, confidence issues, that were severe, to the point where they didn't even wanna go outside

They said they were single, because they were traumatized from being cheated on multiple times

None of those reasons are weird/a turnoff

All of them are weird/a turnoff

2 of them are weird/a turnoff

A total of 12 votes were cast: 3 girls and 9 guys. See detailed results

[Lliam]

I certainly wouldn't be turned off by high standards.

Having been traumatized from being cheated on multiple times wouldn't turn me off, either, unless she was absolutely incapable of getting past it and responding to reassurance. But if she was incapable of trust or infatuation, we wouldn't have much chance of a future.

The one that would immediately turn me off would be severe "insecurity/body issues, confidence issues".
I am drawn to women who are comfortable in their own skin, have self-esteem, self-respect, and strong libidos. I don't want to have to fix someone or constantly reassure them about their appearance. I want someone who can joyfully immerse themselves in sexual pleasure.

[Gent207-2]

They are reasonable reasons albeit I'll need specific on the 'high standards"