Would you date someone who wasn’t attracted to you initially …?

[Anonymous]

What if they found out you liked them and they avoided you

If they changed their mind would you give it a try or would you rather be with someone who saw your worth the first time

[TonyMetal___86]

Saw my worth the first time, i mean why would she come back later since the person is still the same 😏

[Asker]

This guy wasn’t attracted to me But it seemed like things changed after he saw me emotional.

[TonyMetal___86]

What do you mean by seeing you emotional?

[Asker]

I was emotional about something and he saw me teary eyed I’m a room… no we don’t talk or anything. I think he found out I thought he was attractive and he totally avoided me. It got so bad that he would start to whistle whenever he walked passed or whenever we were alone.

[TonyMetal___86]

Well it happens, sometimes there are things that can be seen or known in the person for the 1st time, so when they discover it about it later, they become attracted...

[TonyMetal___86]

*can't

[Asker]

I mean he never said anything still but he just kept looking and orbiting around me. I think he was going to say something but my friend walked in and we talked. But he def kept looking

But if he didn’t see my worth the first time forget it. Why be with someone who thought you were ugly

[TonyMetal___86]

I agree...

[Asker]

Yeah

[Asker]

Does the whistling mean he trying to avoid speaking to me?

[TonyMetal___86]

I don't think so

[Asker]

Really? What does it mean?

I feel like he was a bit cold towards me and he whistled whenever he walks pass

[TonyMetal___86]

I really don't know, i'm not sitting in his mind 😄

[andy530]

As long as they are attracted to me I don’t really care how immediately it happened. Feelings grow they don’t always happen instantly

[Anonymous]

No. Of course not.

At least not knowingly. If she tells me she wasn't attracted to me she ended any chance she EVER had of dating me.

[jahaims]

Nope

[RichM371]

No I wouldn’t