Dating

Single people, are you the "avoidant attachment" type or have you ever dated someone like this?

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Here are some traits of this personality in relationships:

"I leave, then think about them all the time"

"My defence mechanism kicks in and I begin to sabotage the relationship"

"too much intimacy makes me feel vulnerable and unsafe"

"I feel like I'm losing my independence/routine which overwhelms me"

"dealing with someone else's emotional needs feels overwhelming"

"Even when liking someone, I might ghost or emotionally shut down"

"I always have an exit strategy in every relationship"

Here is someone's input after dating this type:

《“You did nothing wrong”- I know I didn’t, I accepted you and loved you for all of you and that’s why you’re running》

《They love your absence more than your presence, because the distance feels safe.》

《Avoidants don’t run because they feel nothing they run because they feel too much. Fear of intimacy, loss of control, and old wounds make them push away what they actually want.》

Single people, are you the "avoidant attachment" type or have you ever dated someone like this?
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