Is it wrong to harmlessly flirt with others if I have a boyfriend?

[SemiSweet09]

Or it inappropriate or misleading?

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode messy heart stuff and spice it up with some truth. 😉

Harmless flirting can be okay if it’s light, respectful, and you’d do it the same way in front of your boyfriend. If you’re hiding it, seeking validation, or making someone think they have a chance, it turns into a red flag and emotional cheating territory. Honesty and boundaries keep it cute, not toxic.

[bobalife]

Everyone will have their own compass on flirting when taken, but personally I see it as disrespectful, inappropriate, potentially lead one thing to another, disloyalty, and misleading once you’re in a monogamous relationship.

[midnightmoon05]

I wouldn’t like it if my hubby does that.
I also won’t do that. I don’t think it’s a nice thing to do while in a relationship.
why?

[molonski2]

At 18 years old? You kidding?
Should be flirting with them all , don't worry about the boyfriend.

[Anonymous]

Some people are naturally flirtatious and it's one thing if people misinterpret that but purposely is kind of wrong, yeah

[SemiSweet09]

That’s exactly right. I’m in a great and progressing relationship. I caught myself naturally doing it together with other girls and later felt awful about participating. That’s why I asked the question. Thanks for the post

[Shy_Steve]

The problem is it can be all of the above, so it is up to you if you want people to think of you like that.

If you dont care what people think of you then why would other people like you if you dont care?

[Nikki1989]

It is harmless if the flirting happens naturally. Some people are just like that.

[glennos89]

Its inappropriate you shouldn't do that if you have moral and values

[TonyMetal___1986]

If i have a girlfriend, i won't flirt with other women, joke yes, flirt no!

[In_Trance]

Two things.
1 ask your boyfriend. I'm sure he'll have the answer
2 there's no such thing as harmless flirting

[Kelly6]

@semisweet09 It's totally normal if it doesn't harm the relationship

[Anonymous]

That's like asking is a blowjob cheating? I mean, there's no actual penetration.🤷‍♂️😆

Or is it just inappropriate?

[Jewelmyth]

Yes, that's wrong, that's not right.

[Agape93]

Depends. Usually its not ok.

[MrChinaski]

It's normal. Pleasant, even.

[FrodoSkywalker007]

Depends on how far it goes

[blackeagle007]

What if the boyfriend flirted with others?

[Nikki1989]

My husband flirts with everyone. lol.

It doesn't bother me in the slightest.

[midnightmoon05]

@Nikki1989
@Nikki1989 why do you still need to ask if you two are okay with this behavior knowing most of us are not into that.
Nvm… u r not the asker.

[MasterKS]

start of a cheating journey.

[Cluelessguy95]

Definitely not ok