Is it ok for my boyfriend to flirt with other girls?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend tells me all the time how he loves me and buys me gifts but I know he flirts with other girls. He doesn’t do it to my face but when he thinks I’m not around. I noticed that whenever the girls approach him or I see him talking to a girl, he gets all nervous and walks away. He already doesn’t like when I’m around guys cause when I talk to a guy, my boyfriend loses his mind. he's with me the whole time I’m with the guy and stares right at me but doesn’t want me to do it to him.

[far2gud4u]

Sorry I am just wondering if this isn't a perspective situation... Maybe he always wants to walk away and maybe he is always nervous talking to girls irrelevant of your presence but you think its only when you are around as you are seeing it. A lot of this could be coincidental and he may be always like this around them and not because you are there?

Either way unless he cheats or embarrasses you with some over the top flirting in public then I think you need to just chill about it. He is with you, not them.

[teamvic]

Sounds like the beginning of a toxic controlling relationship🤔 no its not okay for him to do that, but you're showing him he can so he does

You should leave him but no one ever listens to meee

[spartan55]

What do you mean "when he thinks I'm not around"? So how are you seeing him do this?