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Some people say, nobody can steal your partner unless your partner allows it, and others say that someone can deliberately pursue someone they know is taken.
At the end of the day though, who carries the responsibility…the outsider, your partner, or both?
Real loyalty is unwavering. If your partner is loyal to you, they would never even consider cheating. Both that and "if they can be stolen, they were never really yours." are true.
Both, it depends on the situation but personally if i'm in love with a woman or married, no one can take me from her!
Yep miss phoenix from bouvet island, that's what loyalty is...
Thanks for the mho 🙂
My aim on GAG is to help you untangle messy heart stuff without gaslighting yourself, babe 💋
No one can “steal” a loyal partner. If your partner leaves, they were at least emotionally cracked open already. The outsider can be a walking red flag and totally disrespectful, but your partner holds the real responsibility.
Bottom line: the outsider can tempt, your partner chooses.
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Anyone can steal your partner if your partner is willing to be taken , everybody makes their own choices and decisions in life , why finding someone that truly loves you and stands by your side. is hard to find. Why you should always treat your partner the same way you want to be treated in return and love them the same way you want to be loved in return , otherwise , you might lose your partner to someone else that treats them better than you did. Most people have selfishness inside themselves , so if you can’t remove selfishness and resist temptations , then you should never be in a relationship with anyone , because you only care about yourself and what you feel is best for yourself without factoring in your partners’ feelings , if you can’t wear your partners’ shoes the same way you expect them to wear yours’ your relationship with them might not make it. Selfishness is one of the biggest relationship killers , because a lot of people think grass is greener on the other side , instead of just watering the grass they are already standing on. People that monkey branch are selfish people that can’t ever admit they are wrong , they always assume they are right and always want things there way , they will continue having failed relationships if they do not remove selfishness for their partner. Resisting temptations shouldn’t be an issue , if you truly loved your partner
Either is possible. If a person is weak willed and the “thief” is part of their past the temptation is there. And if the person was a philanderer before they met you then the risk is always there.
Pick someone who knows how to focus …
u Fault is not an indivisible quantity that rests solely with one person. Both people in s cheating relationship are at fault
m If you mean exploiting vulnerabilities then yes, I believe you can "steal" someone in that sense. But then exploiting sounds like a better word than stealing, because stealing implies property, and no one should be a property...
Otherwise, if no one in the scene is being exploited then I believe everyone is free... Tjat includes chasing someone taken and facing troubles accordingly lol. At least I prefer viewing every parties as free than looking at someone choosing loyalty for the sake of loyalty.
I wouldn't trust a girl being with me because loyalty says so, I'd be worried she's in love with morality, not with me
Men can't really resist a beautiful, sexy woman, no matter what they say. As for me, I'm not a thief. I just like a certain kind of man I want to give me his time, and he returns to her more satisfied than if we hadn't been together. The fact I could steal them but won't helps reinforce their commitment. If they did it with a woman who is committed to theft, well then they would be hurt. But with me, they learn they don't have to leave their woman to get what they want sexually, so they might be a little more selective or draw the line at actually ending their relationship. So I'm actually helping their relatioonship. Anyways, I have a boyfriend and I don't want to hurt these women but can't resist doing things with the men who have what I want. It's not like I can help myself where if he has that.
you can't steal someone who is truly loyal, but here's the thing, it isn't about a guy who was looking to leave you or looking to cheat who could cheat. A pretty woman that strokes his ego enough, a guy could succumb just because guys are weak when it comes to beautiful women stroking their egos. It's way different for women, how the power dynamic is for them and why they might cheat. Men don't have the same sexual advantages women do as far as options. so when an opportunity presents itself it's difficult to say no. Women get many opportunities so it's not a big deal for them, so it's completely different.
Nobody can steal a grown person. The outsider might be disrespectful for pursuing someone in a relationship, but the main responsibility lies with your partner. They are the one who made the commitment to you, so if they leave or cheat, it’s because they were willing to.
u I don't know if one can "steal" another's boyfriend or girlfriend, husband or wife. With relationships, each person has the choice whether to remain or leave. So a third party might come along, be flirtatious, try to convince their object of interest to leave ("I could love you better than that..."), but the person in question can decide whether to remain faithful to the existing relationship.
"Stealing" implies that people don't have agency. They do.
I always find it completely irrational when a guy wants to beat up the "other person" for sleeping with his girlfriend. At the end of the day, your partner is the one who made the choice to cheat! Obviously, you shouldn't get violent with your partner either, but the only rational response here is to just cut them loose. Break off the relationship, go completely no contact, and walk away. (And this applies equally to women dealing with a cheating boyfriend, too!)
When you react with explosive anger, you are giving them access to emotions that they simply don't deserve anymore. If someone you love betrays you, the best response isn't anger it's apathy. Treat them with total indifference. I’m not saying it’s an easy thing to do when you are hurting, but it is definitely the most powerful way to handle the situation and protect your own peace.
Your partner is fully responsible for their loyalty towards you, unless you've given them a reason to start wandering, i. e. abuse, growing distant, etc.
If someone could steal your partner then they never really had you chained to their heart as much as you thought. Or even as much as they thought.
I think they can steal.
Your partner is at a disadvantage because they are familiar and are not going to be as exciting as a new girl is.
You will have had arguments with your partner so you know she can be a right bitch at times and she has also refused you sex. The new girl is a basket of sweetness & charm who is so nice that she would never say No to your needs.
Generally though I think the relationship has to be a bit rocky to be stolen.
@Malwi93 That is true. They seemed to be in not so good family situations and money was dangled and private jets and private island would have been seductive.
But it doesn't require that much thought to see the benefits of a stable easy going relationship that is generally good. Some take commitment more seriously than others of course... I'm one of the serious types.
u never... we don't own people, and we certainly don't own their feelings either
if they can be taken, then they were not "yours"
No one can take your partner away from you
If someone else could take him away from you, it means you were never number 1 to him in the first place
No such thing as a home wrecker, you just married a man who just didn't value your home as much.
Find a man who is crazy about you and willing to give up anything for you. You will never have to worry about a thing
Every person is responsible for their own behavior. If your partner cheats, it is their own decision. If someone else encourages them to cheat, that is their decision. You cannot control other people's behavior you can only control your own behavior and how you respond to theirs.
Anyone can pursue anyone but only a cheater steps outside of their relationship. There is no such thing as a “homewrecker” and i will never understand women who blame the girl a guy cheated with.
“She knew about me!!” who cares? Your boyfriend/husband still chose to be unfaithful. You can't take a faithful man.
All 4 are true. If a relationship is solid then it's solid. If there are or were issues with each other or in the past and someone does something like the others part partner then it starts to wear on a person and if someone is wanting them or to interfere then they will absolutely do everything to come between people.
When one is in a loving happy relationship. The commitments is there both respect that… no outsider can break that bond.
my hubby makes sure he wears his ring… and even then… he would say things like my wife this and my wife that… 😊
I voted B 😄
Because of my slight fascination with divorce lawyer/divorce law and the way not everyone's a happy porridge 🥣🍜
You know 💒 not everyone married for love or married for what they thought / could've got
I believe in last option. If your partner was stolen... you are very lucky that it happened because you don't want someone who loathes you to stay with you.
Maybe in the case of the young and the restless, but a grownup who's satisfied in their relationship isn't going to be easily swayed by a whiff or the shenanigans of someone "new."
I don’t think someone can really “steal” your partner. They can flirt with them, pursue them, or try to come between you, but at the end of the day, your partner is still the one making the choice. If someone genuinely loves you and wants to be with you, another person can’t just take them away. And if they choose someone else, as painful as it is, that choice was theirs.
I don't really blame the other person at all. If my girl cheats on my with a guy don't know, we'll he doesn't owe me anything.
I'm mad at the person who is supposed to be loyal to me.
He’s not a baby, no one can “steal” him. Someone can only take what was already willing to leave. His choices are his own, and I won’t blame another person for decisions he made himself…
The real reason is loyalty comes with a price.
I see women not treating men good enough , those men leave.
The women leave when they find someone better.
From my personal experience women who are loyal gets the worst guy for themselves.
And men who are loyal never get love till they die. I meant a guy who is 32 never got love. Never dated it's not like he didn't try, he is a gym going guy looks good enough but still. Never get a date.
Both. You can’t steal someone who doesn’t want to be taken, but the person who seduces them also bears a lot of the blame.
What about right person wrong timing? You feel for them. like I asked, no spam, other ladies here. I mean what about those poor souls? Sometimes you have to think. What a shame?
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No one can “steal” a partner who is truly committed. They can only leave if something in them is already open to leaving.
It always takes two. But the one in a relationship takes extra reasonability.
Well, it wouldn't happen unless the person was there.
The other person still stole them, but I agree that you can't steal somebody that isn't willing in the first place.. Even if there was some seducing and convincing needed.. So both for me.
I didn't see an option to blame the partner. People make their own decisions. No one can "take" someone unless they want to be "taken." They are not victims. They are, in fact, the perpetrators of the offense.
They can only take someone who was willing to leave. In a way, it seems like a blessing in disguise.
@Sirenboobzilla what about "a better Match" came along after say, originally finding the closest to a match-you gotta feel for those ⏰
That's in part the blessing in disguise. If he leaves, then I'm free of someone who didn't want to commit to me the way I committed to him, and he's free to chase whomever he feels is the better match.
Lol what if it was the woman who let her eyes accept the new prince or new King who's attracted her eyes 👀 the stuff of Hollywood but I'm sure it happens.
Maybe that's why it's sometimes funny : people get married at say 25 and then their real match or better match comes along at just before 30 : lol 😂😆 was it the rush or just the changing, growth
You know what I meant or mean Siren Boob Zilla lady lol 😂.
I'm just trying to think of scenarios, whoever does it, no wonder divorces happen if people then see a "more ideal match" that they kick themselves for "why weren't they here 5 years ago" lol 😂😆 humorous 😄 I'm being. But you know, life's funny
NOBODY will ever steal a partner who is loyal!
@7Phoenix7 If you have a partner that is not happy, then they will leave you when another person comes along.
A woman I worked with was a free and easy woman if you know what I mean.
She would tell me she used to steal her friends partners all the time.
She was pretty so I guess that was an advantage too.
Goddamn wow - to be 20s again lol
I agree with virtually every option there.
But for genuine commitment A.
no one can steal somebody who is loyal. The trick is finding that person.
LOL, what about polyamorous relationships then?
They can´t be stolen, as they are not property. They may choose to leave for someone else.
It takes two to cheat. So yeah your partner won't be stolen unless they want to be stolen. It's why cheaters, both participants, are monsters
If they are able to be "stolen" or willingly cheats, let them go, because they are going to only hurt & betray you at every moment in the long run.
No one can still a partner who's loyal. Unless they choose different otherwise.
Nobody can steal a partner, if a partner leaves you for someone it's on the partner for their behavior
We are all broken people. We all should try to improve.
If they can be swiped they weren't yours. Best way to avoid that... have zero feelings
Well, unless they physically tie her up and carry her off, they're not really taking her without her express or at least implied consent
No one from outside can actually split a healthy couple.
If your partner leaves you for another person, it means he/she was not that much into you.
I don't think "stolen" is the right word, as this implies that they're an object and not a person. If they decide to leave you for someone else, it's a decision they made.
Good looking women aproach ugly men with ugly partners to get them to cheat. The men know they will never get a woman this attractive again. Kristina Rihanoff a UK celebrity did that.
The partner is the one who made the commitment so he or she chooses.
The latter, because humans aren't objects;they have free will.
I see what you mean
You're wondering who's fault it is if partner leaves
I think maybe if temptation arrived by the other woman "stealing" him, he must also be unfaithful/ disloyal/ available in order to leave for the other woman.
If someone really wants your SO, they can erode the relationship between you two.
The one who leaves is as much a homewrecker as the other person who they went to to my mind.
I can steal someone that is loyal. I make it my whole life. Then I dump them once I e ruined their life. I'm not even handsome or nice I just have a huge dick.
No one can. If they try they will be in trouble.
Not my guy. He’s smitten. 😍
Especially whenever he gets to see the impressive Boo-tay 👀 🍑 but of course, you always put him in his place - no peeking 🫣
Everyone would be happier if women weren’t so selfish and possessive.
They can only take who was willing to leave
Sometimes is fascinating whenever either player lol finds someone better. It must suck if say a better match came after. Timing must suck for some ⏰
@7Phoenix7 Yes loyal partner can be taken
Just ask Hollywood celebrities 😉 always having a divorce and or a wedding somewhere
You can’t steal someone who is loyal.
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