Are women attracted to rarity?

[Anonymous]

There is this guy on insta who is popular 6’6, muscly and handsome and you look at the comments and it’s flooding with women just in heaven. Like this 😍😍😍

No other guy can do that. Like if you’re a normal guy or under what I mentioned then you are cursed. You are not ultra mega rare so no women is going to go crazy over you. Do you think that’s true?

Like I never see a dude with a beautiful girl just so infatuated with him unless heos personality is rare, but I think the real spectrum of things he can’t compete. Hard not to get depressed when you understand the truth of the world.

It’s an unfortunate reality

This is not true

[OneViewpoint]

Yeah it's real. I'm 6'2" and fit / muscular. I dress well and I'm well groomed. I carry myself with confidence. Those aren't my words. That's what I get from women all the time. At my age that's a fucking unicorn. I know it. I try not to let it influence me.

And I get told all the time that I've led an interesting life. Women tend to get enamored with my background / life story because 99% of them have led pretty boring lives in one town or one area their whole lives. My background sounds like a fantasy to them because they can't imagine all the myriad details that come with it that make it not so much more exotic than their lives, just different. So they tend to romanticize me before they even really know me.

So, sorry I guess?

[Asker]

I have those stats and doesn’t feel like enough I have a lot more tbh

[OneViewpoint]

Dude, you don't have those stats. Not at age 25-29. You have no idea what I'm talking about.

My father was career Air Force. I grew up on military bases all over the world. I graduated from the nation's oldest private military university. I served 15 years as a US Army Ranger Airborne Officer once again all over the planet. After I got out of the military I was recruited into Fortune 100 finance working for publicly traded companies like Raytheon, GE, and Stanley. I left that to help co found what has become a $2.5 billion (revenue) privately owned heavy industrial business. I left that to join a private equity firm buying and selling companies for 10 years and worked with a portfolio of about 24 companies we owned on any given day. I left that about 10 years ago to found my own consulting business working with private equity, hedge funds, and investment banks on M&A deal activity and some manufacturing clients turning their businesses around.

My looks, fitness, and style help but what women really go unhinged over is my background, experience, and life story. You asked about "rarity". How many guys do think have a background like mine.

So tell me, what have you done with your life that would make you interesting to women? What stats do you have that make you rare at age 25-29?

[OneViewpoint]

@Aoaos ,

Not your family. You. Women aren't dating your family. What have you done to make yourself interesting?

[WindAtMyBack]

1/10 is just as rare as 10/10.

If you are asking if people are attracted to attractive people, isn't that built into the definition of attractive? Of course they are.

Is not being a 6-6 muscly handsome guy keeping you from getting a girlfriend? Absolutely not. The only thing keeping you from getting a girlfriend is you.

Don't worry about the other guys. Worry about yourself. You can't do anything about other guys, but you can do something about yourself.

What do you have to offer and how can you improve yourself? The willingness to improve yourself is itself an attractive trait.

[SueShe]

So, let me ask you the following:

There are roughly equally 4 billion women and 4 billion men worldwide, right?

Assuming that 50% are adults, that would make a potential of 2 billion women and 2 billion men. Again, assuming that 50% of them are not married or not live together, that would still leave 1 billion each.

Do you really think that the problem that you seem to have applies to the entire world?

Do you think that in China, Zimbabwe, Uruguay or Iceland, people are so twisted to think the way you put it?

It seems that this is only a problem of yours and not of the entire world.

[Anonymous]

Welcome back for yet another crying session. You're going for the record this week. You are skipping too many therapy sessions again. Please keep your appointment all seven days per week and maybe some day you will stop being a whiny internet troll and grow into an adult.

[Staximus]

You don't need muscles, six pack abs, or be six and a half feet tall if you razzle dazzle them with rockstar bullshit. I was a doorman at a live music venue for years and I've seen a hundred dirtbag looking scrubs walk in with beautiful girls. Everybody around me would say something like "what the hell is that girl doing with that bum?" And then he gets on stage and starts acting like an idiot and you know exactly why.

[Nikki1989]

It seems you are the way that is attracted to this man.

And by the way, there is nothing rare about any of this.

[NathanDavis]

I think you're more attracted to this idealized guy of yours... more than any woman, lol...

[Likes2drive]

Once again women want what they can’t have because he is a rarity so not many women will get him anyway but will stay single looking so don’t worry about it, we can’t change our height but we can most everything else so focus on that

[GeorgePulchri]

the women in my life seem to just like men to be normal human dudes who care about them. They aren't that complicated.

[RickyMontgomeryFan]

Are you into men by any chance? You sound more enamoured with this 6’6 muscly handsome dude than women your age. Maybe try shooting him a text.

[Twodogs0525]

Nobody can be this fucked up in the head! It just can't be.

[Asker]

Bro just look at social media

[Asker]

Social media made it 10x worse