Questions: Dating

Obviously they matter but how much so in dating

After a 28 year old girl breaks up with you can the girl realise years later that they made a mistake? When it’s too late?

Like my ex left me and it’s almost like she assumed the worst in me, even called me an untrustworthy guy when I didn’t do anything to break her trust. I treated her well.

It would be nice for to understand eventually what she has lost and how well I would have treated her and how amazing her life would look. I hope she realises one day and it stings!

One thing I’ve learned about girls in the last year is that they have no problem leaving a good man. Girls can wake up one day and just lose feelings, get a feeling and that’s it. They are completely gone.
They can lose feelings for no particular explainable reason too. Like a light switch, or a bit of arguing and then get cold feet. They put all their trust into how they feel. Girls don’t have any tolerance like our parents and grand parents generation did.

Now to think that you are going to marry this girl and risk everything you have built for a girl that can just drop you 😬