Has it gotten harder for you to find a decent person as you got older?

[Anonymous]

There is saying "good men or women get taken as they get older". Over the years, I have come to realize that this holds true for the most part. As it has been my experience that it's gotten much harder to find someone decent after the age of 35. I have come to learn the hard eay that most of these old guys that are still single in their 40s and 50s are usually single for a reason

[Chayce]

I’m not searching for someone. I’m fully focused on my mission and if someone who’s cool who also happens to share my same goals, then sure. But in the meantime it’s zero outlook on love and it’s just casual dating.

[leviopperman]

yes. all the best people are taken early. it's brutal

[queenofcardio]

It's not the decency part, it's finding someone who has a similar vision of what you want your future to look like. Everyone has their own unique dealbreakers in relationships and that looks different for everyone

[Asker]

the secret to finding someone compatible is just to date someone who is most similar to you. Simliar levels of education, similar culture, similar in age, similar hobbies... differences only creates space, arguments and incompatibility. This also explains why most successfully married couples tend to meet through mutual friends or college/school or work. If you both attend the same college, you both are most likely on a similar level of educational background. People also tend to befriend those of similar backgrounds/values/ hobbies which is why meeting through mutual friends is the most common way married couples meet

[Nikki1989]

It doesn't seem that way for almost everyone I know. That seems more like an online problem. I have been married since the year 2010, and most people I know have been married for a similar length of time.

[Asker]

Single older people do exist. You just don't know any of them

[Stormy_Moon]

ostly but im an independent woman so idr look 4 guys anyway. . .

[Vegasrunner]

Maybe for women. As men age their value rises provided they do the work. As women age their value decreases.

[Asker]

That's not true. It's just your cope

[Vegasrunner]

@asker na just common sense. Men prefer young attractive women. Once a women gets to old she can't provide healthy children. Sorry but thats just the way it is.

[Asker]

@vegasrunner

young attractive women have options, they don't have to settle for disgusting ugly old men like you. sorry but just the truth

[Vegasrunner]

@asker Nah men prefer younger attractive women thats just how it is.

[Asker]

@vegasrunner

that's not the problem. the problem is the women you want, dont want you

[Vegasrunner]

@asker They dont settle, they fight hard to get HV men, and aswe know mens vake increases with age provided they do the work.

[Vegasrunner]

@asker Doubt that true. I've banged every women I've wanted to bang.

[Asker]

@vegasrunner

that's usually not the case unless you are worth millions so then finally you can buy a wife.

then that wife will use you as her ATM card while she cheats on you with a man that she actually wants and is attracted to.

[Asker]

Im pretty sure no one wants to bang you. Your dick barely works by your age

[Vegasrunner]

@asker na as long as men do the work, they can have young women until their 80.

[Vegasrunner]

@aaker I do all right I banged about 2 new girks over week.

[Asker]

@vegasrunner

you can't bang if your dick doesn't work.

no, you dont have enough money to buy a wife. your little 100k means nothing.

[Vegasrunner]

@asker Guess that means my dick works, tbh men can have sex till the day we die. Not sure why any successful msm would want tp be stuck with a with much less buy one. You kind of making the mistake if thinking like a female.

[Asker]

@vegasrunner

you need to realize that most old people still single at your age are usually still single for a reason.

good men get taken by a certain age. leaving leftovers like you still single

[Vegasrunner]

@Asker Single, I have a good roster of 3-5 different women so not sure what you're talking about. Sounds like you're thinking about women. If a women is still single when she gets older than she is considered a leftover women, because men prefer younger attractive women. Hope this helps.

[Asker]

@vegasrunner

I can totally see why you are a left over man

[Vegasrunner]

@asker No such thing as a left over man only left over women. Men can have kids till the day they die women have a clock

[Asker]

@vegasrunner
actually men are more likely to die alone.
single women can have kids. single men can't.

if a single woman wants kids, she can always have them before her child bearing years are over.

but if you are a man, you will never be able to have kids unless you find commitment

[Vegasrunner]

@asker women can only have kids up to a certain age. After 30 over half their eggs are gone. That's one of the main reasons men prefer younger women. Men can have kids till the day they die. Sucks for you.

[Anonymous]

Multiply anything by zero and the answer is a constant.

[Anonymous]

Says the 25-29 account lol

[dudeinohio]

not really.

[In_Trance]

Not at all