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Did I screw up by leaving my cheating ex after she got pregnant?

I am now almost 33. I did not lose my virginity until this year with this woman I met (she’s 35 now), and she started cheating very early on. She would even let other men come into my house and they’d make fun of me and call me a loser every time. Eventually I got tired of it and when I learned one was also guilty of a federal crime, I called Feds on him.

One of these bastards knocked her up and I pretended to just kind of accept it and move on, even saying I’d help raise the child. But in truth, I figured I’d learn sex from her then move on to a woman who doesn’t cheat on me and get pregnant. I was planning to leave when the child was born so that I don’t fuck the kid up.

I am guessing she was thankful I agreed to stay despite what she did. She started repeatedly apologizing for what she did when we started dating. I thought she was bullshitting me just to fool me into helping her raise her kid, and that once the kid was born there’d just be the same dynamic as before. Truth be told, I still think that is what would’ve happened even if nobody else in my circle does. I told her what was up last night and now she completely hates me, she was broken as hell.

Her family is even contacting me just to tell me to “go fuck myself”, and even my own friends revoked my invite to their Thanksgiving party. I guess I f’d up by not realizing they’d fall for her antics and not planning for that scenario. But at least I can always look for a new circle and find a different woman because I’m not a virgin now. I’m still wondering if I screwed up somehow

Did I screw up by leaving my cheating ex after she got pregnant?
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