Long story short I'm not perfect but faithful and trust worthy but she kept giving me reasons to doubt unreachable for 1-3 hours at midnight her phone was always on high ringtone so I called but she said I didn't hear this happened many times
I found guys numbers and she tell me I don't know who are they !!! And it's old numbers from my previous work in delivery!!! If so why it's still there !!
And what make me finished that relationship was she had hickey below her neck I asked her so many times how you got it she insisted it's from me , I never touched alcohol in my life and I was never drunk so I know it wasn't me but she insisted it's me at that point my trust in her was shattered and she wanted we live together and marrying her having a child but she gave me enough reasons to think about DNA test if she got a child the trust is destroyed by her actions though I have asked her so many times to stop giving me reasons to doubt and close her past and live in present so we can stay together but she kept her behavior unchanged.
I know I did the right thing by leaving but I need support I think because I really loved her and I had chance to have higher quality girls but I was faithful I feel I lost too much and she took too much from me
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I say trust your gut because you're probably and most likely correct. Dealing with being gaslighted is a pain in the ass, mind-twisting, and very emotionally damaging. Allow this girl to red pill you on female (not all) behavior but try to skip the red pill rage stage of it.
From my own personal experience... it would just get worse and worse over time.
And let's just say her gaslighting is correct and you're just jealous and paranoid, it's just a friend or a nice guy... or whatever bullshit gaslighted flaming lies she tells you to try and make you think you're crazy... THE BOTTOM LINE IS SHE'S DRIVING YOU CRAZY. There is plenty of women out there that don't constantly seek attention on the side or give so many signs that she's doing things behind your back. Why torment yourself with her... move on. You deserve to be with someone that doesn't do questionable shit all the time right? So, make that hard decision to treat yourself to a higher standard.
God bless you I needed this
U want support on what tho u left because u no longer trusted her thats fair enough what more are u looking for
Well tbh you're right 👍
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