My girlfriend of 1 year and 4 months, she's a senior in high school and I'm in college, has been leaving me and coming back to me at least once a month. Probably more than 20 times and I always take her back because I do love her and want a future with her but lately we have been arguing so much and things don't feel the same lately.
Last night she got upset because of something that happened with my ex. Before I dated my girlfriend my ex wanted me to wait for her until she was 18 to date me. I said yes before. Now my girlfriend asked me the same question but hypothetically and got upset when I said "yes I'll try but I cannot guarantee you" she wanted me to say yes that I'll wait but not the guarantee part. So she broke up with me saying that it's unfair that I would take back my ex of 4 months compared to our relationship when I only said that I'll try and wait. I mean she was only asking me hypothetically expecting me to say "yes" straight out. I told her if she really wanted to leave me and she said yes. I told her that she can't keep leaving and coming back and that if she leaves I won't take her back. So she left. This afternoon she texted me saying she wants me back and I told her that she can't keep leaving and coming back to me when she feels like it. I told her that she had her chance to stay with me. She got upset and just said "I tried but okay bye."
I don't know I feel as if I should take her back one last time but things just don't feel the same. We feel distant. I don't know if I did the right thing by telling her that. I just hate how we've been arguing a lot and how she can leave and come back so easily. I have only left once ever since we dated and came back but ever since then I have not left her. I just don't know if I did the right decision because ei always take her back now I didn't. What do you think?
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She keeps calling and texting me now. I'm just ignoring her calls. I feel bad though.
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