Why She Pushes Me Away And Always Tells Me To Come Back?

[MiddleKeys]

This girl I like always pushes me away than will tell me to come back. I had an argument with a girl I like yesterday and she told me to go away so I respected her wishes. When I left I called her and she said good bye which is she wants me to go. After about 20 minutes she calls me and says come back please. That she needs me. I am very confused with her. Why does she do this to me and what are the reasons she does it. Does she have feelings for me or what. Why does she want me around.

[Senator754]

I experienced the same recently. In my situation, my former lady friend said to my face she still wanted me in her life even though my gut had suspicion. However, Trust was lost and created doubt. The next day I discovered her with another dude. Trust your gut. When she says she needs you, what she’s really saying is that she wants to control you. If you’re feeling anxiety, it is best to go no contact. However, understand she will reach out to you again. At this point, you will be faced with an important decision. To continue to be mentally abused and gaslighted making matters much worse for you. In my situation, I told her she was not the person I now know she is. I asked her to not contact me me again. Her reply was typical of her; all my fault. These are evil people. Learn to recognize the red flags. It’s your choice.

[MiddleKeys]

🧐👍🙏

[MiddleKeys]

Dame you filed a police report dame

[Christoff92]

Does she have mood swings then that could be probably why.

[MiddleKeys]

Yes I believe

[Senator754]

She’s a serial cheater and abuser, verbally and physically. I’ve filed a police report placing her actions squarely on her shoulders to be accountable. She still blames me for the reason of our breakup. I’m not a psychiatrist but it appears to be some sort of cluster B personality disorder. Not my problem. …no contact now,.