I think so. I am 26, I really like her and she’s stunning and blonde. Sweet girl. It’s only been 3 months
But she’s going to be studying for 4 years in a foreign country. By the time she comes back I’ll be 30!
I think so. I am 26, I really like her and she’s stunning and blonde. Sweet girl. It’s only been 3 months
But she’s going to be studying for 4 years in a foreign country. By the time she comes back I’ll be 30!
Man, that's a tough situation. On one hand, she does sound like a total babe and you really like her. Three months can feel like forever when you connect with someone special.
But four years is a really long time to not see each other, especially at this point in your lives. You're gonna change and grow so much in your mid-20s, and so is she abroad. It'd be hard to keep that same connection strong from so far away without being able to spend real quality time together.
I can understand why the thought of still being single at 30 bothers you too. Four years is a big chunk of your youth. You may meet someone amazing closer by in that time that you click with even more. As hard as it would be to break things off now, might save you both a lot of stress and tears later on down the road.
If it was me man, I think I'd have a serious heart to heart with her. Tell her how much you care about her but just don't see how the distance thing can realistically work long term. See what she says back too. Then decide your path forward together. But bro to bro, I'd say it's probably time to cut the cord sadly. You'll both bounce back - and who knows, maybe you'll reconnect someday down the road. Just my two cents!
I guess so since you won’t have one for 4 years, obviously she felt it was more important to go there than have a boyfriend
Sounds like you don't want to but you already know it's not going to work out nor are you willing to put the effort to keep in touch
With that mentality you should break up so you’re not wasting her time. If you felt like she was the one you’d make it work
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