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Polls: Dating

Why are so many women increasingly against the idea of coffee dates as a cheap way to interview a first date?

I keep seeing post after post here of women complaining about men using coffee dates as 'interviews' before the real first date with all the bells and whistles. Why? An after-work, weekday cup of coffee that only...
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I keep seeing post after post here of women complaining about men using coffee dates as 'interviews' before the real first date with all the bells and whistles. Why? An Show More
This kills the hustle of having men spend $500 on drinks/food/entertainment on a random Friday night then not calling him again.
Because the idea of a man 'vetting' a woman is disrespectful and tacky. If you can't show a woman a good time and risk a few dollars on the very first date you're kind of lame.
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A) who ever think that isn't smart
B) you a man you suppose to do that wtf?
C) it is creepy to do that to be honest
D) so it creepy as a man to go after women in 2022?
E) (other)
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Girls, Height requirements for males?

Height requirements for males: 6′4″/193 cm come off intimidating & powerful to most in society. 6′1″/185 cm be considered extremely attractive for most women. 6′0″/183 cm be considered worthy enough for most...
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Height requirements for males: 6′4″/193 cm come off intimidating & powerful to most in society. 6′1″/185 cm be considered extremely attractive for most women. 6′0″/183 cm be Show More
True
False
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Do you believe in the concept of High Value Males?

I see online things about being a high value man or hear men mention they are one or women referring to wanting a high value male. Naturally I wonder who actually believes in this concept?
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I see online things about being a high value man or hear men mention they are one or women referring to wanting a high value male. Naturally I wonder who actually believes in this Show More
Yes
Nope
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Better first date ideas other than the usual coffee shop or restaurant?

I like creative first date idea rather than just go to the coffee shop or restaurant. what ideas do you like for a first date?
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I like creative first date idea rather than just go to the coffee shop or restaurant. what ideas do you like for a first date? Show More
Walk in the park
Go for a drive. see some sights around city
the mall
Art gallery
picnic
Just go to the coffee shop or restaurant
Other place (say where)
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Are these reasons enough to make you end things with a person?

We've been talking for a month (long distance. I'm in Texas, she's in Florida). I'm 29, but she is 26 and still has an entire grad school program she wants to start to get her PhD. So that means if we get married she's...
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We've been talking for a month (long distance. I'm in Texas, she's in Florida). I'm 29, but she is 26 and still has an entire grad school program she wants to start to get her PhD. So Show More
Yes, those are reasons I would end things
No, not enough to end things.
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Do/would you treat first dates like job interviews? Why/Why not?

Many people have different views on how they treat dates, how dates should be, and if they should be professional/casual… Some people say you should treat dates like a job interview… Professional and straight to the...
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Many people have different views on how they treat dates, how dates should be, and if they should be professional/casual… Some people say you should treat dates like a job interview… Show More
Yes, I do/would treat first dates like a job interview.
No, I don’t/wouldn't treat first dates like job interviews.
Both. Not too professional, not too casual.
I don’t date/I haven’t dated.
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Should dating apps have a weight filter?

Okay, I am probably going to make some enemies off this, but let's be realistic, would it help if dating apps had a weight filter? Or maybe they would never do it because they know they would lose so much business? Or I'm...
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Okay, I am probably going to make some enemies off this, but let's be realistic, would it help if dating apps had a weight filter? Or maybe they would never do it because they know they would lose so much business? Or I'm a shallow prick?
Yes
No
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I previously posted my ceiling thumper, now my neighbor is being noisy on spite, who has a better chance of winning case?

My upstairs neighbor has been noisy since she moved in and to retaliate I bought a ceiling thumper. I bought the thumper last fall and she didn’t start blasting her tv on purpose until a few weeks ago. I’m not sure if the...
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My upstairs neighbor has been noisy since she moved in and to retaliate I bought a ceiling thumper. I bought the thumper last fall and she didn’t start blasting her tv on purpose until Show More
Me
Your neighbor
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Why did you fall out of love? Show More
I've never been in love so none
I've never fallen out of love so none
One
Two
Three
Four
Five or more
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just give an estimated age if you don't recall exactly.
Age 5 or younger
age 6
age 7
age 8
age 9
10 or older
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Yes
No
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Deal breaker
Red flag
Ok
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single
with someone
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How did You/They Handle a Forgotten Date/Day of your Anniversary?

ooooooops!!! I thought My Fiance and Myy 3d Year Anniversary Tomorrow!!! I felt soo Sick!!! xxoo
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ooooooops!!! I thought My Fiance and Myy 3d Year Anniversary Tomorrow!!! I felt soo Sick!!! xxoo Show More
I/They have done This, Paris!
I/They never did This, Paris!
Half and Half, Paris!
Look down Here, Paris!
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Yes
No
Maybe
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Girls, Is this creepy behaviour from the guy in any way?

You have a great first 4 dates with a guy. After 2 or 3 dates you notice he becomes less of a priority for you (you start flaking, being late etc) and after 4 dates, you tell him you really enjoy his company but think...
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You have a great first 4 dates with a guy. After 2 or 3 dates you notice he becomes less of a priority for you (you start flaking, being late etc) and after 4 dates, you tell him you Show More
Yes it’s creepy behaviour from the guy
No it’s not creepy behaviour
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Would you date someone who never did any chores at all?

Let's say both of you were working, but they never did anything at all to contribute to the household.
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Let's say both of you were working, but they never did anything at all to contribute to the household.
Yes
No
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Did I come off too strong?

I matched with a guy on a dating app who I knew already in real life. We had a connection in reality, and he gave me hints that he liked me. When matching on the dating app, I gave him a rose (a like) which established...
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I matched with a guy on a dating app who I knew already in real life. We had a connection in reality, and he gave me hints that he liked me. When matching on the dating app, I gave him Show More
Yes, you came off too strong (you shouldn't give your number without him asking for it)
No, showing your interest is fine, he just couldn't handle it and it's his loss
Not sure / other (comment)
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Guys, would you date a sugar mommy or would you be a paid boyfriend?

In japan you can rent a boyfriend/girlfriend for example. I am kinda interested whether men are interested in dating sugar mommys or not. If you are single since your partner died etc. and your dating pool is small due to...
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In japan you can rent a boyfriend/girlfriend for example. I am kinda interested whether men are interested in dating sugar mommys or not. If you are single since your partner died etc. Show More
Yes
No
Other
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