Depends, I generally don't really want to hear all of the intimate details. I don't need to know how the sex is, how big it is, shit like that, but sure I've heard details before.
We like hearing the horror stories mostly. The dates gone badly, the weird shit that guys have asked them to do, etc...
I also don't mind when these women ask for my opinion as a man. I can generally tell them whether or not a guy is taking them seriously, things like that. If they are overreacting, what he might be thinking stuff like that. Sometimes they will listen, mostly they don't and just do what they wanted to.
What they don't want is you calling them crying on the phone with your problems, that's for your girlfriends. Women want us to just sit there and listen, not solve anything, just absorb all of their negative energy and men don't like that shit. Unless you are my girlfriend, go to someone else for that.
I feel like that covers it pretty well. I feel like if we don't ask, we don't really care lol.
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It depends on your relationship with him, how he feels about you, but I would say generally speaking no. It really depends not only on the guy, but many circumstances so I'm not surprised this is almost 50/50. Just ask him if he's ok with you talking to him about it. Then you'll know.
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When it comes to relationships there's only a few things I need to know about a woman's previous relationships before we do anything serious
#1 are they interested in any other men
#2 do they still talk to their exes if so which ones
#3 do you have an STD
#4 is there any emotional damage you've suffered because of a previous relationship?
#5 should I expect any trouble from any of your exes
That's about it
I don't care if a woman talks to any of her exes that doesn't bother me honestly like she can as much as she wants I just want to know who they are because I want to make sure they don't make any moves on her because guys will do that or at least some guys will definitely not all guys but some guys are just that kind of guy
I don't think I need to explain why I'd want to know if my girlfriend has an STD or not
I would want to know about the emotional damage because I wouldn't want to cause any problems and I would also want to help her because if we're a serious relationship then obviously I care about her which you help people you care about
And the reason for number five is simply because some people are crazy and you never know what they're going to do especially when it comes down to relationshipsI won’t “be just friends” with a girl I am attracted to. I might be friendly but not friends. Learned a very hard lesson on that years ago.
However if I am not attracted to her I don’t mind at all. I am also open about my experiences. I got one long time gal pal who is like this and we go into lots of details.
However for you girls out there who think it’s a good idea to tell a “guy friend” (who you know likes you) about your experiences with other men or worse who you like right now…. do not I mean do NOT say that.
He’s a self hating fool to be “friends” with you to begin with. However you are dumping salt in the friéndzone wound if you bring up other guys you actually are interested in. He’s not going to like hearing that no matter how he reacts to it. It’s one of the worst possible insults you can give him.If we're friends, sure, I mean, part of what guy friends do is drink and bitch or brag about our relationships, a shitty car, how awesome our family is, how awesome our shitty car is. That's part of having a friend rather than an acquaintance. You don't have to worry about judgement unless you touch their bottom line, like you bitch about THEIR relationship, family, or car lol
I don't know about all men but I talk to my male friends about my dating life. And vice versa. Only time I chill on it is if the friend doesn't seem like they wanna talk about it. Sometimes the guy won't really address what I said fr and they'll bring up another topic. Then I'm just like okay fuck it then, I'm probably doing too much. Next topic. That's rare tho and I don't keep those guys around long.
YES! Here is why: Those are coaching gems. So this girl is not yours but the one who is or will be will be treated to all that experienced education. AND I will be prepped for all the behind the scene drama.
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Me " I know what you are doing right now"
Her " Oh wow great to hear from you just when I was thinking of you... what am I doing right now"
Me "Talking to your male friend about how well our date went"
Her "*blush* How did you know... Is he your spy?"
Me " could be. don't trust him"
Any ladies want to use me for after date venting or oozing let me know. I am here for you ( and some experience)I don’t have platonic women friends that I talk to about this. If I’m talking to a woman consistently/constantly, then it’s a woman that I would most certainly want to get sexually involved with.
They should.
It's unhealthy to view your girl bestie from different angles. Get possessive and shit. I can find it cute initially, but I'll drop the man pretty hard if he starts to get weird about it.
Just so we're clear, i love when my guy friends talk to me about their love interests.Considering that most of your guy "friends" are probably into you that seems like a rather torture adjacent activity.
Maybe they're into that I don't know. Seems like a dick move. Like bragging about all the water you're drinking to someone dying of thirst lol. Talk about punching down.we certainly don't want to hear If we fancey her,... Ur probably thinking... Why the fuck would a guy be a friend with a girl he fancies... Well intially he was trying to pursue her romantically but realised she wasn't interested too far in and now it's too hard to let go of friendship cos he even values the friendship too
It depends on the girl. Most women and their relationship questions get annoying real quick. Keep it general, don't pick apart single sentence or focus on a single word. Do that, and guys don't mind it.
Yes. I'd love to hear about that type of stuff because it not only informs me as to what is going on but I can also give them tips on how to be more on top of their game when it comes to my lady friends dating
Yes as long as she doesn´t compare me to the other guy or tells me to do something just because another guy does it.
I have mostly guy friends but unless one of them has already brought up the topic of crushes and dating or one of them asks me for advice about that I tend to steer clear of that topic because I feel like that's just awkward
I might listen to be polite but I probably won't remember a thing she said.
It's harder if I'm single and am attracted to her. Mainly because while I want her to be happy, I would want it with me. Now that I am not single, I still want the girl I have a crush on to be happy, but just not with me because that would mean I had to break up with my girlfriend which I don't want. As for girls I'm not attracted to, I still want them to be happy, but never happy with me. As a utilitarian I have to seek happiness for all.
there is no straight man on the planet who is a “friend “with a female... girls seem to think that guys think of them the same way other females do and it is not the case
no guy gives a shit about your personality or your life, if they are interested in you it is because they want to fuck you and they just are either waiting for the perfect opportunity or are too chickenshit to make a move and being your “friend” The the only way for them to have you in their life.
If A guy tells you otherwise he is just simply being a pick me and wants you to think that he’s “different” but his underlying reasoning is 100% the same.
For the women who don’t want to believe this you are only fooling yourselves. there is not a fat ugly female on this planet who has a straight guy “friend“ who will randomly text her just to see how her day is or one who goes out of his way to make time in his life to spend with herYes, but you might end up with your friend telling you that the guy you are dating sounds like a loser.
This is why my friends are all male. lol I dislike gossip.
I said no but there is a caveat. Women get too detailed and long-winded about such things. If I get a simplified version then I don't mind. Very rarely do my male friends and I get into specifics about our love lives and I prefer it that way.
I have a female friend who asks me advice on her dating and sex life.
We often go into detail about our sexual experiences.
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