Girls would you make a move on a guy, or let him make a move on you if you knew he was married?

[Anonymous]

I'm currently in the situation rn. I'm attracted to my co worker who she knows I'm married, but we both acknowledge we have attraction towards each other. She's hesitant to meet up with me after work or when we make plans she cancels them. Note- she also has a boyfriend

Yes

No

I have

[SamA_nold]

No. If she is willing to cheat on her current boyfriend, and violate the bond between you and your wife, she’s not someone to hang around with. And if you are considering cheating on your wife, you should reconsider your priorities.

[bones_20]

No. I’m not into cheaters.
Neither of you sound ready or loyal enough to be in relationships and marriages.

[Guy13]

I think she is smart for cancelling as it seems like a no win situation here. You lose a wife and she looses a boyfriend. Closed case as the answer is to keep distance at workplace and stop trying to meet outside of workplace. +

[whereismyjohnny]

I wouldn't make a move on someone if they were taken, and neither I would cheat.